physical 'flaws' you can't move past in a potential partner.

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  1. dolfette

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    finding someone physically attractive is important for most people when picking a partner for sex or relationships, so what are your deal breakers?

    weight?
    hair colour?
    body art?
    cock/breast size?
    moobs?
     
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    toe thumbs.
    *shudders*
    i can't be touched with toe thumbs.
     
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    For me, vaginas sorta kill it.:eek::cool:
     
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    I couldn't date an obese girl, chubby is fine, but too much weight usually travels to the face and then it's a deal breaker because ugliness is usually the result. I do have to find a girl's face attractive in some way, not even necessarily the classic definition of beauty. Hair and body type don't really matter if the face is right. Though if I did get a choice I'd say busty with a nice ass, thin, and short-ish.
     
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    I've never thought about it... Certainly don't have a list or anything...

    I've dated a man with moobs, one with a small penis, men of different heights, men with body art, men who have hair of almost every color, and people of different races.

    I think my deal breakers are more likely to be things like political beliefs, personality, and character.

    Oh, personal hygiene. That's a deal breaker, but it's an easily fixed one.

    I dunno. I'm sure that I have them.

    Do you mean actual toes that are thumbs?

    This Man Had His Thumb Replaced By His Toe
     
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    :eek:
    *faints*

    Megan Fox Toe Thumbs

    personal hygiene... eating veal....
    morning people :rolleyes:
     
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    Teeth and smell
     
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    Oh, her thumbs look like toes and that other guy's toe looked like a thumb. Maybe hers need to be switched, but then she'd have those Frankenstein scars all over her hands and feet.

    What if she wore mittens? Angora mittens?
     
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    hmm... maybe. if i got to knit the mittens :smile:
     
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    What about age?

    Some people do get hung up on a number.

    I once was literally about to penetrate a girl (sorry I didn't put it more romantically) when she suddenly asked me how old I was. I told her. Deal breaker. She ninja sliced my brain for weeks.
     
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    Bad teeth.
    Short.
    BO.
     
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    Poor hygiene, lack of self-confidence (somebody in the relationship needs to have some self-assuredness!) general vapidity, self-absorption, insincerity, dull eyes - actually, the lack of any stand-out facial feature (eyes are big with me).

    Lack of an appreciation for creativity (NB, while closer to my ideal, creativity itself is not a prerequisite - but I like to make things and I like to share them; utter disinterest in either weighed heavily in my decision to get a divorce a couple of years ago - as did the total lack of romance, passion, intimacy and, needless to say, sex).

    Obese - that's a tough one. Thick or thin, all is beautiful, but obesity is a disease, and that's never pretty (neither is the other side effect: being the number one cause of preventable death in the US, having finally knocked smoking out of the title spot).

    I have many, many flaws myself, and while I constantly work towards a daily reprieve from those flaws, a little understanding goes a long way.

    Good post - made me think. Thank you!
     
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    Short
    Overweight
    Not hairy
    Bad Teeth
    Bad Hygiene of any kind
     
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    some people have trouble understanding really basic terms, like 'physical flaws'...

    please stop being stoopid in my thread.
     
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    Bad teeth is probably on top of the list, along with unhealthily overweight.
     
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    moobs. i like men, boobs & trans women's tits. i don't like moobs.

    acne. the odd zit is ok but i'm sqeamish about kissing bad acne.

    muscles. i like some. but, while i admire lots, i don't fancy lots.

    weight. healthy! unhealthily fat or thin does not turn me on.

    age. i don't want to date either teenagers or pensioners.
     
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    Sorry I jumped on the all flaws bandwagon.

    Purely physical:

    blonde hair and blue eyes

    too bulky or muscular I's take a chubby guy before a potential Mr. Universe contestant.

    Shorter than me. I'm 5'7
     
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    overweight is the biggest one for me. Everything else can be forgiven, but I could never be with someone who is drastically overweight.
     
  20. dolfette

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    ajax, i will forgive you.
    but only because i plan to letch later.
     
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