Physical reaction.

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  1. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    Ladies i was wondering what is your 'typical' physical reaction to an orgasm.

    For example my usual reaction after the eyes rollling, gasping for breath, shaking etc is to fold like a deck chair. In missinonary with him on top (my classic fav) i will fold, wrap both arms around him, then the legs and grab a handful of his hair and hold on for the ride..Ending in me being told to stop ripping out his hair..Of course it differs depending on intensity and position but that is almost a routine orgasm for me.

    Are you a porn star screamer, a quiet sigher or go into all out into a convolsive fit..?

    And guys please share any experiences you have seen/given women
     
  2. thirdlegmeat

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    Women's orgasmic expressions definately differ from individual to individual. It's kind of always fun to see for the first time with a new partner. Of course first we have to determine if she's faking or not. LOL

    Assuming it is real, I'd say that my experience has produced more women who are "shakers" or kind of spastic in their orgasm. A few scream, but it seems that most express themselves more so physically than vocally. I think there's a tendency to want to sound proper and not "slutty."

    I have had some "moaners," and they're the worst. It's very hard to gauge how close/if they are orgasming because they had been moaning the prior 20 minutes as well. There's not a distinct contrast between orgasm and nearing orgasm.
     
  3. Gisella

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    Hey Lee...

    Hmm...well I body and face expressions woman and loose brains talking mode when things are getting good and i'm building up etc..than as much some may think bcause my talkative personality I maybe a screamer, nah..I'm 'delicate' as orgasming as much some are fast and furious as physical I'm making that air thing between my teeth and saying 'aiaiaiai' If I'm mounted I tend to colapse a bit..if I'm being mounted I can pass the surface I'm in although I feel falling further that..i may give a vulnerable look or something else going on because my partener tend to hold me...what I like for a bit until I recuperate. If I'm noble position (doggie) and deep rear I feel those goose bumps and act like more like a cat and there I'm dirty mouth. Sometimes is a light one that I want he keep going and he keeps pumping and me doing the horny air sound between my teeth.

    But I'm a discret "aiaiai" more facial and body expressive girl...I notice that some girls in Brasilian porn do the same 'aiaiai'..hmmm...:eek: who knew it? Later I see if I post the 'aiaiai' sounds here. Comparing Brasilian porn with US brasilian is much more discret even kind of silent...:tongue:

    I never screamed and etc, yet..believe or not.
     
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    my last girlfriend was kinda shy. well she was a virgin, maybe this explains it. she grabbed the pillow and my hands and i could feel when she came. No sounds at all though but almost hyperventilating.
     
  5. ClaireTalon

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    I guess this question is more for our boyfriends, lovers and husbands, or combinations of these :cool:. I don't see myself during orgasm, and afterwards I hardly can remember what I've done or said. However, I remember that I've once trashed my alarm clock by shoving it off the nightstand, and once kicked my foot through the footboard. There you see what happens if the inlays are cheap plywood.

    From the vocal point of view, I seem to shift into an endless loop mode during orgasm. I don't say much, more dirty talk takes place on the way to the orgasm, but during the actual climax there's not much except for a lot of "Aaah"s and "Ooh"s of varying depth, and a lot of "Oh shit" in an endless loop.

    Does this kind of "bad mouth" turn guys off? Like no swearing during intercourse?
     
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    Not being a lady, I can tell you that the reactions I've witnessed have left me literally reaching for the neosporin/mecurichrome for my back. That, plus seeing my last GF squint her eyes at 1st, then they roll back in her head for a split second, and then a combo of gasps,screaching like a banshee, and then a sigh.
    I always wondered tho, does an orgasm trigger adrenaline? because my gf's arms had a death grip on my shoulders/back.
     
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    Probably, at least there are all the bells and whistles of an adrenaline rush: Blood pressure up, heart rate the same, sweat secretion. I have heard the same, that I grip very hard in an orgasm, or pull a guy to me with a force level that suggests I want to break some bones. So from me, you'd get a yes to that answer.
     
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    Yes, that would be it usually for me. I've been initially shocked and then amazed at how strong even the most petite woman can become. Almost like they won't let you escape, and you couldn't even if you wanted to, not that I would.
     
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    Deffinatly an adrenaline rush...
    I tend to dig my nails into whatever I'm holding onto, I've been known to lock my jaw, bite really super hard till I ride out the pleasure, and eye rolling too.
     
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    Lots of moaning,screaming near the end( from both of us!) spazzy shaking after I come, like after shocks. Much hyper-ventilating from Mr. Ed and I.
    Eddy likes to tell me how tight I am, and how he's progressing, fighting to get in! I love hearing that! But I do wish I could see the squirting he tells me I'm doing.We just have the most incredible sex, I think our piercings play a huge role in making it so much more intense. I love to feel his big ring and barbell going in with that big cock! :D Yeah baby!
    Miki
     
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    I think one common physical reaction for women when orgasming or about
    to is a reddening of the chest area in a v shape.
     
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    I moan a lot the whole time, and until now didn't know that was bad thing :confused: . But I guess it makes sense that it is. Generally when I climax my moan goes from the uh uh uh mmm mmm mmm to a more high pitched eh eh eh, yeah, yeah, oh god, fuck me, yes, yes, blah, etc (almost like I'm in pain, but I'm not) as my whole body tenses up, toes curl, nails dig in and then finally an ahhhhhhh mmmmm and release as my vaginal walls contract and my body relaxes. Not sure what my face or eyes do....never conscious of that. Orgasms are so beautiful though, I wish I could be in a constant state of "O"..."O" what a wonderful world that would be!! :biggrin1:

    Yeah, forgot to say that I also get red on the chest and face. And when I squirt (rare here lately) I tend to get MUCH louder than usual and shudder hard afterward for a while.
     
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    Not in the slightest.

    Believe me, from most men's perspective, a woman in the throes of an orgasm can do or say almost nothing wrong. (Except maybe someone else's name...:tongue:)



    It most certainly is not a bad thing. Vocalization, even non-verbal, is probably one of the most erotic aspects of sex with another person. A bad thing would be a partner who makes no sound of any sort, moaning or otherwise.
     
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    You're not into sex with mime artists then? :biggrin1:
     
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    Sure I am...I've just never yet come across one who can keep silent! :wink:
     
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    That i have never noticed..but i will be looking for it next time
     
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    I have a friend who is the most outrageous screamer I have ever met. I am not talking loud grunts and groans, I am talking screaming as if your life depended on it. Since the Concierge had a quiet word with me, I will only give her head and G spot if she holds a pillow over her head. :tongue:
     
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    Hey, this is rather random but here goes. I've never had sex and my friend has never had sex either. But she really turned me on one night while we were spooning and she quite enjoyed the fruits of her efforts. We didn't have sex, but we started rubbing. I got some of the reactions that you are describing here like moans, heavy breathing, she latched onto my comforter on my bed with one hand, and she grabbed my pants with the other and pulled me back (very firmly) everytime I moved back just a little. She later asked if it was ok to be so vocal. Of course I said YES!

    My question is: Do you think that just rubbing while you still have clothes on can produce these intense feelings or possibly an orgasm? She definitely had to catch her breath after a few minutes. I really hope she's not faking, because before this happened she kept telling me how much I turn her on and now she tells me that my penis is incredible. Wow sorry for the long post
     
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    Yes, you can cause orgasm thru the clothing.
    You don't nescecarily have to touch the genetalia to cause orgasm either.
     
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    I'm not a screamer. I used to be pretty silent. Comes from doing it in too many college dorm rooms early on I guess. :redface: I notice men tend to like me to do dirty talk, which I find almost impossible. I'm not a prude, but when I'm having such a good time I can't think of words, let alone dirty words. My entire focus is on how good my guy is making me feel.

    One guy told me my eyes crossed when I came, but I don't know about that. I know they do roll back in my head. An-ex bought it to my attention that my toes curl, and you know what? They do! Can't uncurl them when climaxing either :tongue: I do tend to softly moan throughout, but when climaxing I think I'm more high pitched and breathy almost hyperventilating, then there are of course the wonderful involuntary vaginal contractions, and the full body tremble, almost like shivering; but I am definetely not cold. :wink:


     
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