Physically, what is really the biggest turn-on for you on a man?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by B_duanculo, Sep 2, 2011.

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When looking for a mate, how much does size influence your liking of the male?

  1. penis size is ALWAYS an important aspect

    15.9%
  2. penis size is USUALLY an important aspect

    31.7%
  3. penis size is typically NOT an important aspect

    41.5%
  4. penis size is NEVER an important aspect

    11.0%
  1. B_duanculo

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    face (how handsome or "cute" he is)
    body build (whatever your preference)
    penis size (whatever you preferred size is)
     
  2. dolfette

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    mannerisms.
    scars.
     
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    A mirror, giggidy.
     
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    there should have been a poll option for,
    i'm not answering another silly willy question.
     
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    scars?
     
  6. dolfette

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    yes, scars.
     
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    I think my favorite part is how the title says 'biggest turn-on', but the poll only focuses on penis size.
     
  8. dolfette

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    subtle!
     
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    Physically, I only have negatives:

    That if he does have muscles, they're hidden under a layer of fat (If I see a vein, I'm leaving!)

    If he is on the skinny side, I don't want to be seeing ribs... I'll throw up, EVERYWHERE!

    Aside from that, don't care.
     
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    None of the above. Visual stimulation does very little for me. I get turned on based on personality and actions.
     
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    Agree with the dolf....battle scars of life and the nature of the being is the attraction.
     
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    good teeth/smile, eyes, hygene!!! omg.. some guys, sigh. Honestly, If I wanted cheese, I'd go to Whole Foods. ;) They do not have to be a bodybuilder...but at least look like they take care of themselves.

    *non physical* must have a sense of humor, good personality, smart. *nothing like the elusive hot nerd*
     
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    Deep, beautiful eyes. Hairy armpits.
    A nice body frame. Taking care of oneself is important but that does not mean he needs to be perfect and cut like a diamond. As for non-physical aspects: intelligence, open-mindness, compassion, sensuality and big sense of humor.
     
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    I don't understand.

    In your post, you mentioned face, body and penis. Yet the poll was all about the penis. :confused:
     
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    A handsome, regular guy. With big, wide feet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Also nice if he has a hefty piece to go along with the feet, not required though.

    This response is about physical aspects only. Deal breaker if the guy is an asshole, no matter what the physical traits.
     
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    It could be face,or body,could be the deep voice. When I see someone that sparks me,it just grabs my focus and says hhmmm.he looks interesting? Now if hes packin a serious peice thats a plus. But if he is stuck on himself hes invisable to me.One thing I'm not big on is intellectuals. I find them a bit boreing sometimes,and I'm more laid back easy going to get into a "I know more then you" type scene.
     
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    I prefer interesting faces over conventionally handsome ones. I once described an FB as looking like "an Aztec warrior painted by Picasso" :wink:

    I'm really flexible as regards build, but my comfort range rarely allows for someone who is more than about 3-4 inches taller than me, and I'm only 5'6. I don't find obesity sexually compelling, personally.

    I've always been a reverse size queen and specifically look for a more modest endowment (but still within the acceptable range of average: no micros, thanks). This is because I'm a non-versatile top, so I'm never penetrated anally and in my midlife have grown lazy when giving blowjobs :cool:

    It's really strange that there's no mention of ass anywhere, so I'll bite: I am a totally ass-pig/hound. I like them as large as they can get and still be proportional overall, both in terms of cheeks and hole (tight hole is unwelcoming to me). I am extremely attracted to child-bearing hips on men.

    I understand that my tastes are somewhat rarefied, but you did ask.
     
  19. B_Hung Jon

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    Yeh, the title of this thread is not exactly clear. To me the biggest turn-on with a man or a woman is who they are as a person. It's more important than any physical characteristic, although I'm a push-over for beautiful eyes.
     
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    I'd better not say straight-acting.:rolleyes:

    But I like a blend of masculine and feminine traits; i.e, physically active but interested in the arts, culture, etc.

    I like unusual, exotic faces, many of which are of different ethnic origins.

    My favorite bodies are mostly smooth, slim, and well-toned.

    Almost forgot dick size: average or bigger but HARD and up-pointing will weaken me every time; can't help it.

    And they better know how to smile.
     
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