pick your relationship label!

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by dolfette, Mar 24, 2010.

  1. dolfette

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    i think we all sometimes fall into a role. sometimes it suits us, sometimes it's a rut.

    i am...

    the midlife crisis

    middle aged men want me the same way they want a flash car or a motorbike. it'll most likely kill you but you'll feel like it makes you look cool, despite or even because of the damage to your bank balance. ffs, fool, i'm not even that good a ride!

    ...and you are?
     
  2. D_Geffarde Phartsmeller

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    Is there some sort of online test for this? Like, a facebook quiz?
     
  3. dolfette

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    no.

    this is about looking at yourself, not ticking a box.
    what do you find yourself becoming?
    do you turn into a child, a parent, a carer, a pacifier, a drug?
    how do you allow yourself to be used?
     
  4. D_Jared Padalicki

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    I am...

    the good friend...
     
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    Mate, older bro. Reluctant lover, lol.
     
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    The over worked employee LOL!
     
  7. dolfette

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    oh lordy! i think i need some explanation of these, because they sound most intriguing.
     
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    I am the Odd Hot Guy, I look pretty and not much else happens.
     
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    I am the over worked, good friend, all the time horny, bi-sexual guy with a golden heart.
     
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    I am a listener and encourager
     
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    The. Listening mate
     
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    The loner... The outcast... The social-leper... The shut-in... The crabby older-guy that yells at the neighborhood kids to stay off of his lawn (which is just green gravel)....
     
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    looking and looking and looking and looking...
     
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    I have different roles with different people in my life.
     
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    I am The Mirage.
     
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    I am The Masked Mind

    The person you always feel you connect to, understand, and have things in common with. They always laugh at your jokes, make ones you like and is fun to hang around with. They seem sympathetic, happy and understanding all the time. The truth of them though, they usually don't have many feelings, and could care less one way or another, their true feelings and persona only coming out in the midst of those who share the same.
     
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    Awww - the one who's nice underneath, but just needs some mates to drag him outta his shell? :wink:
     
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    Solitary depresser...
     
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    the cocky yet sweet guy, with a sensual loving side :D
     
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