The other night I went out to have a couple of drinks with a couple of girls after a graduation party at a local pub. I went to the bathroom to piss at the urinals that don't have dividers (love those). I got a quick glance at the dude next to me. He had a rather large head on his tool which really got my blood pressure going if you know what I mean. I watched him and his buddy(who was hot) at the bar out of the corner of my eye as I conversed with my two classmates. After my classmates left the two guys went outside to smoke. I followed. I held a conversation with them and a couple of other people for about an hour till closing time. As the two guys left in separate cars, each mentioned where they where going to eat. They introduced themselves, shook my hand and left. Well, I went to the QT where Tim went and got a hot dog just as he did. As he was leaving the register, I asked him to hold on. He waited for me to make my purchase outside. I asked him where he was headed. He said home. I asked him if he wants to have some fun. He said if it were last night he would, but he had to go home to his wife and kid. He smiled and said maybe I'll see him again there sometime. I told him I think he is hot. He just smiled and said he had to go home to his wife and kid. I said "Oh well, no guts, no glory." This scenario has me so intrigued. I guess it's new frontier and a change from the boring gay bars full of dancing queens in this area. Any advice on what to do or say if I ever see him again? Anyone have a similar story to share? Is there any way of telling if a guy could be had that I am not aware of?