I've been reading some of these posts and they're very exciting. They make me think of things in my past and I wonder.... Does anyone have any tales of missed opportunities? I can think back on a ton of situation that happened to me but I was too dumb to reconize the signs? I've always been slow to the gate on such things with both guys and girls. One time I was working in Boston at StarMarket in the Fenway and the Asst. Manager was this white guy who was in pretty good shape and not too hard on the eyes. I must have been about 23 at the time. He had me work late with the agreement of dropping me home afterwards. Before we left the store he changed clothes in the change room while I was getting my stuff out of the locker. He stood in front of me in these tight blue briefs that showed everything. Of course me, being me, didn't pick up on the hint. Even while he was driving me home his conversation in hindsight was pretty sexual in tone. Still, nothing. So, what stories can you tell of missed opportunities either due to your not picking up on the signs or the person of interest not being able to pick up on your hints?