First let me admit i am well aware i dont have the picture perfect pussy and get quite shy about having someone new see it for the first time.
And i think the reason for that is the amount of porn, nudity etc that is around these days all show women with prestine looking pussies. They are always trimmed to perfection, never any spiky regrowth and physically always look great (colour, size, shape, semetric)
So ladies do you feel somewhat pressured to keep your down stairs in a picture perfect state 24/7. Meaning trimmed, waxed, smell free or even do you feel self concious about any physical differences you may have from the 'normal' pussy?
And men are you disappointed (honestly) if you are with a woman for the first time and she isnt looking her best?
Lee_M, I think that you've picked a great topic. I've enjoyed reading the varying opinions so far. I do agree with you that the media (including porn), and culture as a whole has been pressuring women towards the hairless tight look. Unfortunately women have to be faced with these expectations. Some women easily blow this all off more than others, as some of our female members told us that is doesn't bother them, and others acknowledge the pressure. The kindest answer to this question from the males is that "all pussies are beautiful" and "variety enriches experiences".
I agree with that to an extent. I do think that most all pussies are pretty and would feel great, but I still have a preference. Is it wrong to prefer one look over another when considering any physical part of a woman? Not necessarily. Even if we appreciate and see beauty in a variety of shapes and sizes, I still think that each person favors a particular look. So, I think the best answer lies in the cleche that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". Some if a particular guy doesn't admire your look, there are other that do.
With that, I'd like to share my preference. I do not prefer pussies that look small, tight, pristine, hairless, and smell free. I like pussies that look mature, warm, and accomodating. To me, a meaty pussy with large lips presents those traits the best. So, as oposed to the porn pussy, I prefer a long slit, large lips, any shape lips, any color lips, lots of wetness, hair all around but can have the length trimmed or natural, and I want to smell where I'm at! I like it when a woman's pussy has a scent! I want to smell my food when I eat, and I want to smell a woman's pussy when she is sharing it with me. It adds to the experience. Yes, hair does trap in scents and pheromones somewhat. It doesn't do this to the extreeme, but hair can increase the surface area for the scent to stick to. Now, I don't like a rotten smell, that comes from a health problem, but niether do I want to smell soap or perfumes down there. I want it natural.
My username is Naturall, so this should come as no suprise. I admire women that look as close to being all natural as possible. I don't find things such as dyed hair, tatoos, fake breast, or extra piercings to be attractive. I'm not in the majority though. My preference is just another opinion. Again, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
The fact that shaved pussies, legs, and arm pits on women are seen as feminine is all due to culture and conditioning. The common occurance of the words "clean" and "shaven" being put together is evidence of that. One can have hair, and still be clean, can they not? Tell me, is the hair on your head dirty, or the hair on your arms? Many of our beliefs are due to culture and conditioning. A few of our attractions can be contributed to prefering a healthy partner, and a compatible match, but most of our preferences are learned.
, might as well, seeing as my boyfriend has been exposed on here. Somehow I think he will be less comfortable with these being up than his own :tongue:.
