Sorry to bump an old thread, but his response rings very true to why I dont show my face in pictures and only cam with a select few.
Though I have a vagina and not a dick, this is my reason as well. I usually cam with women much more comfortably than men. It's a lot less pressure.
This is a smart move, although, I would advise to find people, male or female, who respect your privacy. There may be less pressure with women, but not necessarily more sanity.
If you have a trustworthy friend's list and want to share your face with a select few, there's the option of posting face pics in a private album. I have occasionally used my face pics as an avatar or placed regular face pics in private albums without issue. But there are limits, with intimate pics I always block out faces and other unique features.