if youv only had it done for two months i would put it down to people to get used to it. Iv had mine done for years and hardy anyone mentions its really its just part of me now and if they do mention it they just tell me they like it, however when i first had it done i got told i had it done the "gay" side and all this nonsense, its just like reecho says, people dont like things that are different, but this is only a small change and once they get used to it youll be fine.
when i had mine done it took forever to heal and since yours is only two months old im guessing its still swollen. when the swelling goes, why not try something a little smaller, jewelry wise.