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I guess I could ask this in the Relationships section but I’m not really interested in a guys take because somehow the answer would work back around to his dick size. Kinda like the number 42 and the hitch hikers guide to the galaxy.
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I have had two women in my family that share a similar trait and judging by what I see elsewhere it’s not that terribly uncommon an issue.
My wife’s aunt just seems like she is pissed at the world. You bring up a person or subject and she’ll tell you why it affects her directly and how it pisses her off. She never has anything good to say about her husband and he’s one of the most decent men I know. Always helps, hard worker, lived in a little travel trailer near work towards the end of his career while she lived up at the 77ac horse ranch he bought because she wanted it. The ranch was simple and they were not swimming in money but he worked till he was old and even after retirement bailed hay fields till his eyes gave out. Even then she bitched at and about him. She just seemed spring loaded to the pissed off position about everything.
The other is MUCH closer to home. Much.
My wife has never had to work. I’ve always provided, purchased her the homes she wanted and worked hard to make them what she liked. This sounds self stroking but I’m easy going, always listened to her day(but learned to not try to solve her problems)when I got home, try to be fun and funny to lighten the mood around the house, felt like I was supportive and complementary and always tried to provided the things she liked. To be fair she was never one for the typical material things but always supported her love of animals including numerous dogs and cats and an array of horses, goats, chickens, and of course Buddy the Wonder Donkey. (He was a bit of a diva)
Now she has never been ugly to or about me. She has always been very kind and supportive. Thing is she is really hard on our adult children. It’s much like the other woman I talked about. I even told her I was concerned about her and I was afraid she was headed down the same path.
I even retired early because I thought we could have some fun and she could relax with some help. Come to find out after telling me “Hell yeah retire baby, you deserve it!” She doesn’t really want me around the house. Which turned out fine for me. I spend my days up at the local community college art Dept.
I understand this is a very limited view I’ve provided and I understand everyone has their right to be pissed about what ever they like but I’m kinda a a loss. Why be so pissed off when you seem to have a pretty decent life.
I’m in no way trivializing her feelings. Hell, quite the opposite, I’m concerned I’ll go tits up and she’ll be alone and isolated. I’m just curious if any of this seems familiar? Do you have friends like this and or do you have insight?
So
I have had two women in my family that share a similar trait and judging by what I see elsewhere it’s not that terribly uncommon an issue.
My wife’s aunt just seems like she is pissed at the world. You bring up a person or subject and she’ll tell you why it affects her directly and how it pisses her off. She never has anything good to say about her husband and he’s one of the most decent men I know. Always helps, hard worker, lived in a little travel trailer near work towards the end of his career while she lived up at the 77ac horse ranch he bought because she wanted it. The ranch was simple and they were not swimming in money but he worked till he was old and even after retirement bailed hay fields till his eyes gave out. Even then she bitched at and about him. She just seemed spring loaded to the pissed off position about everything.
The other is MUCH closer to home. Much.
My wife has never had to work. I’ve always provided, purchased her the homes she wanted and worked hard to make them what she liked. This sounds self stroking but I’m easy going, always listened to her day(but learned to not try to solve her problems)when I got home, try to be fun and funny to lighten the mood around the house, felt like I was supportive and complementary and always tried to provided the things she liked. To be fair she was never one for the typical material things but always supported her love of animals including numerous dogs and cats and an array of horses, goats, chickens, and of course Buddy the Wonder Donkey. (He was a bit of a diva)
Now she has never been ugly to or about me. She has always been very kind and supportive. Thing is she is really hard on our adult children. It’s much like the other woman I talked about. I even told her I was concerned about her and I was afraid she was headed down the same path.
I even retired early because I thought we could have some fun and she could relax with some help. Come to find out after telling me “Hell yeah retire baby, you deserve it!” She doesn’t really want me around the house. Which turned out fine for me. I spend my days up at the local community college art Dept.
I understand this is a very limited view I’ve provided and I understand everyone has their right to be pissed about what ever they like but I’m kinda a a loss. Why be so pissed off when you seem to have a pretty decent life.
I’m in no way trivializing her feelings. Hell, quite the opposite, I’m concerned I’ll go tits up and she’ll be alone and isolated. I’m just curious if any of this seems familiar? Do you have friends like this and or do you have insight?