"pity sex"

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Or that's what I call it. When you're in the mood but your partner isn't. Then she says something like "well do what you want but hurry up" or something equally annoying. Do you take advantage or just sigh and go on?
 

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I wouldn't have pity sex with anyone... My partners always want to fuck me..but I haven't been in any long extended relationship so maybe in the future that will change.
 

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yeah, i don't loan out my vagina.
it's not a frippin' library book.

i can't imagine being in a "do what you want, just hurry up" relationship.
the only reason i've declined sex is massive illness, sheer exhaustion and the depths of severe depression.
thankfully the folks i partnered up with would never press for sex when my normally frisky self is off the mood :frown:

ya use of the words "equally annoying" is almost as empty/desperate as ya thread's premise.

and to those who feel the lady will eventually enjoy herself.. ew. sooo fucking ew.

eta: the flipside is equally soulless/unappealing.
resigned to isn't the same as consent, and consent is not the same as involved/enjoying.. i wouldn't impose on partner.
i also got too much self-respect to be so damn gubby.
 
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The person I have on the side I wouldn't call it pity sex but more of lazy sex. Or it just he don't know how to be sexual or use it. And it makes me really mad even tho we are always in a hurry.