yeah, i don't loan out my vagina.
it's not a frippin' library book.
i can't imagine being in a "do what you want, just hurry up" relationship.
the only reason i've declined sex is massive illness, sheer exhaustion and the depths of severe depression.
thankfully the folks i partnered up with would never press for sex when my normally frisky self is off the mood :frown:
ya use of the words "equally annoying" is almost as empty/desperate as ya thread's premise.
and to those who feel the lady will eventually enjoy herself.. ew. sooo fucking ew.
eta: the flipside is equally soulless/unappealing.
resigned to isn't the same as consent, and consent is not the same as involved/enjoying.. i wouldn't impose on partner.
i also got too much self-respect to be so damn gubby.