Piv Sex - Big Cock: Her First Vaginal Orgasm?

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For Penis In Vagina (PIV) sex, has:
  • any woman had several good sexual partners, but didn't have a vaginal orgasm until being with a guy who was both good in bed and had a big cock? If so, was it the length, or the thickness, or both, or something else that made the difference?
  • any man had several partners and had any of them say that they never had a vaginal orgasm until being with you -- and did she think that it was because of your length or thickness or both?
(by vaginal orgasm, I mean a orgasm that starts and completes without any deliberate clit stimulation by fingers, vibrators, etc.)
 

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Not talked about previous partners in that way, but my wife has always had vaginal organisms (usually several each time) unless intentionally stimulated on the clitoris. I don't know if it is length or girth but am guessing it is length, although it might be girth to some degree... or both?
 

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For Penis In Vagina (PIV) sex, has:any woman had several good sexual partners, but didn't have a vaginal orgasm until being with a guy who was both good in bed and had a big cock? If so, was it the length, or the thickness, or both, or something else that made the difference?

Women who have had many sex partners before me have told me they loved the feeling of my thickness in them, as it "filled them up". One told me my cock, but mostly my technique and skills, caused her to have a vaginal orgasm, which she said didn't happen al the time for her. Another's orgasm was obvious, but we never discussed whether my dick size had anything to do with it. She was certainly surprised, and very pleased with both me, and my dick.

any man had several partners and had any of them say that they never had a vaginal orgasm until being with you -- and did she think that it was because of your length or thickness or both?
(by vaginal orgasm, I mean a orgasm that starts and completes without any deliberate clit stimulation by fingers, vibrators, etc.)
Eight of the 10 women I've been with, said they never had vaginal orgasms from intercourse alone, and always required some other stimulation (fingers, mouth, vibe, etc) to have an orgasm. All said it was just the way they were, and thoroughly enjoyed our sexual activities together. I think my experiences match up to some studies in the real world that indicate only about 20% of women can have orgasms from intercourse alone.
 

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Thanks for your response @lapdog2001!

think my experiences match up to some studies in the real world that indicate only about 20% of women can have orgasms from intercourse alone.
Yes, I've read numbers like ~30% always have a vaginal orgasm and another ~30% occasionally have a vaginal orgasm. My personal experience is about 1/3 of my partners have had vaginal orgasms with me.

I've always wondered about how much: larger than average size, endurance, and overall attentiveness has something to do with it.
 

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An ex said I was the first to give her deep spot orgasms, as opposed to another kind she said. I'm assuming clitoral, but I didn't really probe.
 
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Thanks for your response @lapdog2001!


Yes, I've read numbers like ~30% always have a vaginal orgasm and another ~30% occasionally have a vaginal orgasm. My personal experience is about 1/3 of my partners have had vaginal orgasms with me.

I've always wondered about how much: larger than average size, endurance, and overall attentiveness has something to do with it.
With one past lover, the one and only way she could have an orgasm was via cunnilingus. Even then, she came only when the guy did it the way she wanted, and was patient enough to do it for 15+ minutes straight. I was one of those guys, which is why she enjoyed spending time with me in bed! ;) She could 'cum' from masturbation, and manual stimulation, but it was nothing at all like the breast swelling, eye-rolling, body convulsing when she had a true orgasm via my lips and tongue!
 
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My wife had 2 very large boyfriend who "felt amazing but never gave her an orgasm". Then this one guy who was big but not as big... she said there was this feeling she always struggled against, this "smaller" guy just made her let go and gave her several orgasms over and over.

She said the actual sex with the 2 bigger guys felt better, but the orgasms made the smaller guy better.... until she went back to have sex with one of those bigger guys and now knew to just let ago against that feeling.

She said after that very few guys have not given her an orgasm, even smaller guys like me she has orgasms with. But, she said the bigger the guy the more intense the orgasm and more frequent she has them.
 

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Not all women cum this way: all vagina and no clit. I’d say for me about 1/2 do and I am very very large and can go without limit. Most others like to be filled up and then play with their clit. That makes the most intense orgasms for them all: being stuffed and stretch while playing with their own pussy. That’s the best for pretty much everyone.
 
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I've had more than a few woman give me a heads up that they did not always orgasm from intercourse before our first time. I put that to rest for all of them, as far as I know.