Places I've Met Women

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  1. B_NineInchCock_160IQ

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    Listed below are (in chronological order) all the places at which, venues through which, or people/events/organizations through which I have met other people that I have dated. This includes one night stands, random hook-ups, social outings that can barely be considered dating at all, committed long-term relationships, girls I almost married, and everything in between. Also, though I've listed people I met while they were working as strippers or prostitutes, I'm not counting any encounter I had with someone while they were "on the clock" as a date.

    Feel free to analyze. I'm not offering any of my own. Just thought I'd share the raw data.

    This doesn't mean I'm back from my break.

    1. someone I went to pre-school with
    2. someone I was in 2nd grade with
    3. someone I met at the HFMA convention in Nashville there for the same reason I was (parent's business trip)
    4. a friend of my sister's I asked to Prom
    5. someone I had Creative Writing class with sophomore year
    6. someone I met hanging out at President's Park (freshman dorms at GMU)
    7. someone I met browsing the Yahoo Messenger member profiles and messaged randomly
    8. a high school friend I reconnected with after graduation using ICQ
    9. someone I met through Club X (an internet-based club for video game enthusiasts)
    10. someone I met through Club X
    11. someone I met through Club X
    12. a coworker I met working at Denny's
    13. someone I met in the chat rooms at Adult Friend Finder.com
    14. a high school friend I reconnected with using AOL
    15. someone I randomly approached and talked to that I saw in the cafeteria at UC Davis.
    16. someone I met at the UC Davis-themed dating site meetstudents.com
    17. someone I met at meetstudents.com
    18. someone I met at meetstudents.com
    19. someone I met at meetstudents.com
    20. someone I met at meetstudents.com
    21. a friend of my ex-girlfriend's
    22. someone I met in the AOL Teen chat room
    23. someone I met at date.com
    24. someone I met at date.com
    25. someone I met on the internet, can't recall where exactly
    26. someone I met when she was working as an escort, advertising on eros-guide.com
    27. someone I met through Rotten Tomatoes personals/The Onion
    28. the sister of a patient I registered in the Fairfax Hospital ER
    29. a nurse I worked with at Fairfax Hospital
    30. a stripper I met while she was working at Bigguns in Daytona Beach, FL
    31. a registrar I worked with at Fairfax Hospital
    32. a nursing student I worked with at Fairfax Hospital
    33. someone I had an American Literature class with
    34. ex-girlfriend
    35. someone I met on the internet, not sure where
    36. someone I met on the internet
    37. someone I met on the internet
    38. someone I met at the bar across from campus, Fat Tuesday's
    39. someone I had Psychology class with
    40. radiography tech I worked with at the hospital
    41. coffee counter girl I worked with at the hospital
    42. registrar I worked with at the hospital
    43. someone I met at Rotten Tomatoes personals/The Onion
    44. someone I met at the club/bar Bridge's
    45. a patient I met at Fairfax Hospital
    46. a tech I worked with at the hospital
    47. a patient at the hospital who was also the friend of a friend
    48. a friend of a friend I met in my Viper
    49. someone who e-mailed me in response to NIN song interpretations I had posted on burning souls.com, then met in person in Poland
    50. the girl at the register of the amber trinkets store in Hel, Poland, that I asked for directions
    50. a couple of models I met driving along the beach in my Viper in Mamaia, Romania
    51. some young girls I met driving in my Viper through Sibiu in Romania
    52. a college girl I met in my Viper in Lublin, Poland, asking for directions
    53. someone in my English class
    54. a friend of a friend I was set up with online
    55. a friend of a coworker I was set up with
    56. cardiac nurse I worked with at the hospital
    57. young girl I met at a friend's New Year's party
    58. someone I met on some weird website about penises (lpsg.org)
    59. my ex-girlfriend's roommate
    60. someone I met on gothic personals.com
    61. someone I met through the forums at burning souls.com, then met in person at a NIN concert in Chicago
    62. someone I met in the teenspot.com chat rooms
    63. blind date, friend of a friend
    64. someone I met at gothic personals.com
    65. someone I think I met on date.com
    67. someone I met sitting outside of Starbuck's, after inserting myself into their conversation with a friend
    68. someone I met at a NIN concert at MCI Center
    69. someone in my Media Criticism class
    70. a student I met sub teaching at my old high school
    70. someone I met at a music festival/NIN concert in Miami
    71. someone I tried to meet through a dating website several years before, never actually did, and then finally got together with due to a random IM
    72. someone I met at gothic personals.com
    73. someone I met through the George Mason University section of myspace
    74. someone I met at e-spin the bottle.com
    75. someone I met on the internet, not sure where
    76. someone I met through lpsg.org
    77. someone I think I met through Rotten Tomatoes personals/The Onion
    78. someone I met through RT personals/The Onion
    79. someone in my Applied Linguistics class
    80. someone in my Cultural Studies class
    81. someone I met at e-spin the bottle.com
    82. someone I met at e-spin the bottle.com
    83. someone I met at e-spin the bottle.com
    84. someone I met on myspace, who was a friend of an old high school friend
    85. someone I met on RT personals/The Onion
    87. a co-worker at my hakwon in Korea and neighbor in my apartment building there
    88. someone I met through the forums at burning souls.com
    89. some random Korean girl that started flirting with me at a side-dish bar in Cheolsan, during a business dinner
    90. a friend of a friend who went out with us to TinPan, a club in Itaewon
    91. Korean girl I met at a friend's mixer
    92. someone I met at the club/bar TinPan
    93. a Korean girl I met at an international mixer/language exchange event at Hana Bar
    94. someone I met through RT personals/The Onion/Spring Street Networks
    95. someone I met on Hot or Not in Seoul
    96. someone I met at lpsg.org online, met in person in Bangkok
    97. someone I met at a go-go bar in Bangkok
    98. someone I met working at a kiosk in the mall in Phuket
    99. someone I met just walking down the street in Phuket
    100. someone I met on Hot or Not in Bangkok
    101. someone I met on Hot or Not in Manila
    102. two girls I met at a bar in Quezon City
    103. someone I met on Hot or Not in Makati
    104. someone I met outside my hotel in Quezon City
    105. a girl I had IT 103 with and her friend I knew through facebook
    106. someone I met through Hot or Not
    107. someone I met through Hot or Not
    108. someone I knew from high school and reconnected with at our 10-year reunion
     
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    well what else was I going to do with all the time I usually spend posting here?
     
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    Bangkok and Phuket...

    you made up those names, right?:wink:
     
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    :biggrin1: I always got a chuckle from those names, too!
     
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    honestly...i could care less


    but this one is interesting, lol:
    85. someone I met on RT personals/The Onion
     
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    22. someone I met in the AOL Teen chat room
    At no point during my teen years did AOL even exist. :redface: I feel ancient now. :frown1:


    52. a college girl I met in my Viper in Lublin, Poland, asking for directions.
    You took your Viper with you to Poland? :confused: There is no way that was cheaper than a rental! :tongue: Please Explain.
     
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    Jeez - it would take me fucking weeks to remember where I'd met everyone I've dated / fucked / whatever - No, not because the list is that fucking long, but I have a really crappy memeory - Hell, I can't even remember how long the list should be, nevermind names and places and years and shit like that. I mean I could if I really tried but frankly I don't care that much - most of them were very much 'of the moment' affairs and I attach very little importance to the minutiae. You keep a diary right?
     
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    Gee NIC, did you have any relationships that worked?

    Yes, there are a lot of places to meet people, though a few of us here could add "Science fiction conventions" and "Pagan festivals"--to which I could add "Ren Fares".
     
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    AOL 2.0 was available when I was 14 or 15 I think. That's when my family got it's first account.

    and... on that particular trip... I looked into renting something comparable to my Viper. It would have been $500-600 a day. For the month I was over there it was definitely cheaper to just ship my car.
     
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    Yes I keep a diary. If I did not, I would have forgotten many of these. I was just looking for patterns, to see if I was better at meeting people in certain contexts or situations.
     
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    My longest relationship to date was with the person listed above that I met in my Creative Writing class sophomore year. We were together close to three and a half years.

    I've never picked up any girls at science fiction conventions or pagan festivals before, but Jenni, the same girl I just mentioned, and I attended several BotCons (Transformers conventions) and at least one Renaissance faire together.

    Most of these aren't what anybody else would classify as a "failed relationship." Most of them are people I only saw once or twice.
     
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    1. A sex chatroom on WinMX...she wouldn't leave me alone!
    2. Gatecrasher in Sheffield
    3. Corporation in Sheffield
    4. HotorNot.com
    5. HotorNot.com
    6. Pub
    7. Friend of friend's girlfriend
    8. (ongoing) HotorNot.com

    I met a postwoman the other morning actually on my way to work. She was very pretty and started talking to me but I was half asleep. Ten minutes after she walked by I began speaking...d'oh!
     
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    Okay. Sorry for the wrong intonation. Had to wonder with a list like that before I spooled out my own memory banks. Some of them were not one night stands, but a lonely and/or curious woman who I'd known for a while.
     
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    btw, I haven't had sex with all of these people. Someone asked me in a pm.
     
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    I think this list goes to show you can meet men or women anywhere. You should pat yourself on the back for your creativity and resourcefulness. :cool:
     
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    NineInchCock,

    How do you do it? I'm curious to know how you are able to pick up girls so easily and have sex with them? Very impressive list. Please share your secrets!
     
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    thanks, number 58! :biggrin1:
     
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    Once again, I haven't had sex with all of these girls.

    As for how I've picked them up... I don't know... maybe I'll write a book. It wasn't just one thing.

    I don't think it's especially easier for me. I think I try harder, and more often, and as bliss pointed out, I don't limit myself to specific venues. If I see an opportunity, and have the willpower that given day to make an effort, then I'll go for it. Thick skin is one important element. It hurts getting turned down, but if you never ask someone out or never try to initiate a conversation with them you'll never know if they're interested in you or not. Also, the more things you try the more you get a sense of what works and what doesn't. If I listed all the girls I'd been rejected by, the list would be a whole lot longer. and if I listed dates for all of these above encounters, you'd see that the number tends to grow each successive year. There are some anomalies to this pattern, such as the few months I was single and living in the college town of Davis, CA, or the month I was traveling through Eastern Europe, or the month I spent in southeast Asia. Some places are better for meeting women than others.
     
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    Humor us :wink:
     
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