Please be real with me! Help.

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  1. jiggysmalls

    jiggysmalls New Member

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    I guess the main question is does this really work?

    Please someone who has really done these techniques please be real with me.

    Do they techniques really make your penis bigger when having actual sex.

    I am a black man with a less than average penis.

    I have been embarassed by women of every race because my penis didnt not measure up.

    I really need help b/c my size is very depressing.
     
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    Thank you Big Al. My lack of size has seriously affected me psychologically where I feel that I am worthless. I have met some very cruel women in my life and I guess I cared too much.

    I really hope I can change things for the better.
     
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    Just be prepared to spend a great deal of time doing this. I always tell people at least two years. And this is two years of consistency. Make it a "hobby" in the sense that you will dedicate as much time learning about it and doing it as any other interest of pastime in your life. Funny, because its something that you will spend a considerable amount of time on, but you cant really talk about it with anyone except in anonymous internet forum.

    But thats what we are here for. And you can talk about it here.

    I mean, if you are serious.

    And go slow. Do not skip to the advance stuff without being ready. Follow the program, then deviate to shock your growth. By then, you would know what all that means.

    Learn everything you can. Good luck, and be happy.
     
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    I know it's hard to believe this, but what those women said doesn't count! They say cruel things because they're cruel people. You're NOT worthless! You can also make the changes you desire by working at them, and there's few greater feelings than the accomplishment of achieving your goals.

    Like Wish-4-8 says- we're here for you :) If you feel like talking or venting please feel free to do so here.
     
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    Man, I am sorry about your problems with women in regard to your penis size. If you don't have a big cock, you don't have a big cock. If you are desiring women that want big cocks... you are wanting those women and you have a small cock...then you are setting yourself up for failure. That is honesty.

    Personally, I don't trust penile enlargement techniques. I am of the opinion that you only have one penis in this life. You take care of it and you will not suffer fools. If you want to go through the trouble of doing penile enlargement endeavors...you do so at your risk.

    There are cruel people on this planet. Yeah, you may not have a monster, thigh slapping cock. I don't have a monster, thigh slapping cock. I know that there are men out there with bigger size cocks than ours. Why should you have to compete with men who do? You have other talents and strengths. You are worthy of love and women who will appreciate you. Love is not short order. When women can feel free to criticize your penis for whatever--you have the right to criticize them. Nitpick them.
     
  7. markj71

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    jelqing works.
    it doesnt do as much for your flacid state, but it does give you some more length and more girth than length when erect, but you have to persevere for as long as it takes.

    pumps are great for a confidence boost, but gains are temporary. you could try pumping a short while before a sexual encounter. dont do it too hard or you'll burst a vein or something.

    i haven't tried stretching and weights, but i think they would work if applied constantly for long periods of time. maybe just for length.

    i did read somewhere that using dht (andractim) gel on your dick can make you grow alot faster, kind of like puberty. oh, but i dont think this would be a good idea unless you have low testosterone levels to start with. get your testosterone and LH levels checked.
    a penis because of low test, and high LH during puberty could be made bigger this way. by the way how old are you? as this only applies if you have already passed puberty. if you are still young DONT MESS WITH YOUR BODY.

    dont do surgery, it comes with too much risk. pills and patches are mostly bullshit.

    also, about the cruel women, dont torture your self about it.
    dick size is not everything. you dont need a big penis to give a woman an orgasm.

    find a girl you can really connect with on a personal, may be even a spiritual level, someone who respects you and your feelings, who understands you are not perfect in every respect as nobody is. a good caring loving person who lives for happiness and to make others happy.

    stay away from selfish hedonistic whores.
     
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    Will PE techniques work for everyone?

    No

    Will PE techniques work for the majority?

    Probably, if they are done right. PE literally has to become a religion to be effective and more damage has been done to PE by individuals claiming to give instant results than anything else.

    In PE you have easy gainers, average gainers, and hard gainers. This is the ONLY thing that PE has in common with bodybuilding. An easy gainer is genetically gifted with a ligament structure which will allow permanent stretching and hence gains in a relatively short time. The true "easy gainer" is not common especially with regards to length.

    An "average gainer" should begin to see something noticeable and be "packing a little more on a level easy to see" in a period of about 2 years of diligent constant work. I hard gainer will take longer.

    There are a few out there who are genetically given ligament structures which simply will not stretch. For these men the only option is to go for girth and that is in some ways easier to get than length is.

    You have to be patient, you have to be diligent, and you have to understand that if you see gains early those gains will be lost as ligament structures try and reset to their original dimensions. You will see temporary gains at about the six month mark, and as has been said figure 2 years for noticeable permanent gains in the average man.

    Also, anyone who puts you down for your penis size is an idiot and their opinion is not worth considering. In fact they are not worth considering even as a friend. You were given this size genetically and you cannot help it.

    Good Luck!
     
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    I disagree with markj71. Penis exercises will in fact increase your size while you are flaccid also. Brobably, the biggest problem that you have jiggysmalls, is the worlds misconception with black men being more endowed then white/other men. The Kensey Report, which measured over 100,000 men of different skin color/nationality and on average men's penis size is the same regardless of race or skin color. As far as whether this will work for you, the answer depends on if you are able to/have the willpower to do these exercises for 6 month or more, with seeing very little gains. Most men quit because they do not have the will power to keep going inspite of the evidence.
     
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    Hi
    I am actually 31. Havent had sex in 10 years b/c I dont feel I measure up.

     
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    Jiggy,

    First off, do yourself a favor and drop the "smalls" in your screen name if that is in any way shape or form in reference to the situation at hand. Secondly lets take a moment out and be honest with ourselves....

    I want to provide some personal information so that you know where I am coming from with this and that I am not just blowing smoke up ya bum. I am real and I am only 23 but I have been doing some form of PE since I was 18. 18!!!!!

    I did not loss my virginity until I was 18 because I thought that my penis would not be able to satisfy anyone but me. So the PE started, I look back in retrospect and realize that I put that fear of a small penis in my own head. No one else until one day I was with a women. I was trying to spice it up and do a little striptease. I get to the part of taking off my undies and the girl says "is that all?" 3 words that changed my life.

    My first instinct was to find a baseball bat or a wine bottle figuring that might be able to fill her craving va jay jay, but I realized that its not my fault. I have been with many different women in my life and if I listened to what everyone of them said in regards to my body I would hate my life. Because I would be changing myself for them not for me.

    SOOOO with that story it brings me to this point. If you are going to do PE do it for YOURself by YOURself. Do not try to impress everyone. Do not make this a competition, this is merely self improvement. You will only make yourself mad if you do not obey this advice. I know this because there were my faults when I started PE. So don't start like I did.

    Start like this, I stood in front of a mirror completely naked. 100%. Look at every inch of your body head to toe. Write down everything you find that you don't like. Trust me it sucks I broke down and cried, I was so mean to myself. But once you are done being mean and before you get dressed pick out one thing that makes you happy. It can be as simple as your big toe. Find something anything that brings a glimmer of hope and change.

    Then and only then will you know if PE is right for you. Don't worry about the women that have made you this way because very very soon you are going to put them all to shame and the reactions you remember will vanish. Merely rephrase the situation so that it becomes funny for you and not so horrible or as damaging as it has been.

    Take what was said and turn it into the fuel for change.....

    Find the first women that you really truly can connect with and go for. Balls out go for. Don't doubt yourself, instead allow yourself o become enriched with their company. If you chase women for sex you will be a very hollow person. Find someone with soul and heart. Then you wont ever hear the 3 words I heard...

    You can do this and we will all be here to support you...
     
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    toes.. thanks so much
     
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    I used pumping to gain my permanent 1.5" of size. I would say that many men either Overdo it, or base it on some porn shop pump they bought for 9.95 at lovers lane.
    Using the manual stretching methods - you aren't going to do damage otherwise it would HURT. And if it Hurts..you stop.

    If I had to do it over again, I would use a combination of Jelquing, pumping, and stretching.

    The most important thing to do is Read. Read up on the things you want to do.
    I agree with the rest of the boys.
    If you are with a woman and she says your small, then simply criticize back or Pull up your pants and walk out. (I'd at least throw in "Well if you werent so well worn")
    Don't beat yourself up because your an average size. Sometimes average is just right.

    100% honest here - It worked for me. I'm not huge by any sense, but I'm bigger than where I started and that gives me confidence knowing I made a positive improvement.
     
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    Jiggy,

    please feel free to pm me if you want to talk...
     
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