Please Help................................ Erection Problem ? Unsure

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Please guys help me with your honest opinion,

Do I still have erectile dysfunction or not ? I don’t need a comforting anxiety releasing answer, that is weak and it won’t help. I want the plain truth in your opinion as my situation made me unable to know if I still have erectile disfunction or not. So please tell me... compared to, your... cock, if my cock works normal or not now ( I am sorry if it sounds gay but understand my pain )


Story:

In 2017 I had a penis injury that caused me erectile dysfunction until mid summer 2018

During this time I had great anxiety levels, depression and impossibility to have a proper erection

After months of meds, warm baths, sport, no touch, meditation, I managed to

Get a good sex session that lasted and made me feel that I am again a man, boners were back, etc.

Problem is, when I masturbate, I no longer seem to know what „normal erection” looks like . Either my brain got messed up in my injury and forgot how the penis acts and looks normally when erect, or I still do have some ED at some level.

Symptoms :

I can get an erection but it does not seem full rigid erection to me like before. Why is that ? well, when I got healed I masturbated in a weird position (I was trying all positions and sorts of things to get erect), like this : on my back with knees up (above) and bended and I got an erection of rock hard, when I was getting up from that position on my feet, the penis was rock hard, I mean it was rock type from the top to the bottom, feeling it very tight on my body.

Well to this day, I can get erections but compared to when I masturbate in that position (knees bended or let’s say squat / knees above my body ) my erections would be softer, let’s say

94 % compared to 100 % rock hard erection that I can get when I masturbate in that particular position (knees bended). Curious, if I do masturbate like that and I get up, the erection will subside to 94 % in terms of 10 seconds. And if I do masturbate in any position and I get erect, when I switch to bended knees, I will get the rock hard 100 % in few seconds, but this will last only when I remain with knees bended.

Questions : 1. Why is this happening ? is this normal ? is it not ? I do not seem to remember if I was like this before but I suspect that before I could get 100% in all positions. Or am I totally wrong and this is the normal way males get erect, with a super rock hard erection when they bend knees or put knees above the body !?


Compare me to yourself and tell me how is normal, because I lost the track.


Please don’t mention anxiety, I have managed with meditation, therapy, doctors to get relaxed in all situations, I feel no anxiety anymore, I am just curious if I still have a form of ED or this is the normal way of the penis to work.

2. Also, I have tried to watch some porn ( no masturbation on it , no arousal , just watching the guys cocks erection) and have seen that in many positions those guys have soft cock, which intrigues me; isn’t the penis supposed to be rock hard in all sex positions ? because from what I see, in 69, doggy style, blow job from standing and the girl on knees , all these positions and many more will offer the guy an erection of probably 80% max. due to the angle of where the cock will enter inside her. So does that mean that actually some positions of sex are done with the penis softer ? example doggy stile, the penis will never point up but straight, etc. ? examples with images from porn (warning, graphic) :

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3. In this imagery I have found on the internet, I cannot explain this, probably a big enigma for me :

In this photo : http://www.scielo.br/img/revistas/cpa/n40/en_09f01.jpg

it shows the scale of erection, with nr IV being normal full rigid . But the penis in nr 4 it’s not pointing upwards, yet when I masturbate with knees bended and I get up, the penis will be pointing up and rock hard.


However, in this photo : https://truelibido.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/penis-erection.png

I found another explanatory image of the erected penis, where the penis points upward in full erect.

So how is normal full erection normal when one stands ? with the penis pointing up with the tip, or with it just slight bended ?!


Also, I have tried cialis, even 40 mg, and it has changed nothing to my erection, it still behaves the same.


Please answer to all my 3 questions

Thank you so much if you got here, sorry for the long text, but I do need an answer

Much respect
 

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Bravo on recovering from your injury and for managing your anxiety. That must have been a scary time.

Rigidity and angle are two different things. Angle has more to do with ligaments in the groin. And 94% vs 100% rigidity based on posture seems like normal variation.

Does your health service cover sexual health? If you're still using meds to manage anxiety, ask whether those meds are likely to affect erection quality.

If you don't notice a difference when using erection meds, it's wise to stop using them to avoid side effects.
 

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+1 on stopping erection meds if they don’t work.

Could be a physical or mental thing, and I agree that consulting with a specialist to assess whether there’s a physical injury, is the first step to go through. If that’s not a physical thing then you’ll be able to plan for non-physical advisories / cures.

For what it’s worth, I had to stop all sexual activities for 3 months after a very bad rugby accident, and even though I was not at all physically unable to have sex after these 3 months, it just was not the same as before. It took me a few weeks to get a physical check, but after I did and knew that nothing physical was getting in the way, it really helped me gaining confidence, and I went back to rock hard within days...
 
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Thank you dear guys for such kindly answers, I feel very good to know that are kind people like you and understand what I've been through, It's been a painful, painful time that I wish to none. I cannot describe it how it feels to have one year of no erection.

As for the problem :

- I do not take any meds
- Cialis does not change the issue
- I live in a third world country and I'm afraid that the specialist will not know what exactly to test, that's why I asked here what can I test ? so I can go with this info in other country and test it
- I also suspect some nerve / vein not healed, that's why I kindly ask you , what tests can I do to test if all veins are working well in the area and what test I can do to test if all nerves are working well down there ?
- Anxiety is gone but still I don't know if I function normally or not, because of my super hard rock erection in bended knees and softer erection in any other position

Thank you so much for your help....... it means a lot to me...
 

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Bravo on recovering from your injury and for managing your anxiety. That must have been a scary time.

Rigidity and angle are two different things. Angle has more to do with ligaments in the groin. And 94% vs 100% rigidity based on posture seems like normal variation.

Does your health service cover sexual health? If you're still using meds to manage anxiety, ask whether those meds are likely to affect erection quality.

If you don't notice a difference when using erection meds, it's wise to stop using them to avoid side effects.

So do you think this 94 % and 100 % could be normal after all ? because I don't remember if I was like this before the injury or not .

I don't remember testing erection levels like this. I want to know if it's normal to be like this or it's an erectile dysfunction ,mild one
 

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I am not a health care provider. So I can only offer suggestions on a limited number of things.

You mention you tried Cialis. Was it prescribed by your provider and obtained through verifiable sources, or self-prescribed and obtained through other means? Because it's possible what you took was substandard or counterfeit if obtained through other means, and the real thing obtained from a verifiable source might be effective.

If you're concerned that local providers may not be sophisticated enough to help you, then you may need to look outside Armenia to get answers.
 

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I have tried cialis 5 times, all from pharmacy,

It changed nothing, I get ultra rock hard when I bend knees in seconds, and when I release that, it gets a bit softer.

So what I'm trying to find out is what is being "released" anatomically inside, from the bending of knees

UPDATE :

I finally confessed to a real person about my injury, a friend. The guy said that I should post everything that happened on a forum, so I will post the whole story here.

I never mentioned how I injured, so if there is any of you who can give me a humble advice, I kindly ask you to do so.

So here is the whole story :

In 2017 begining I found information about jelqing and I tried it, without seeing any warnings or risks of this technique.

I pulled my rock hard erect penis with brute force in all possible ways for 10 minutes.

After that I lost erection. No pop or major pain.

From that day to 2018 summer I could not have a proper erection and I was having severe premature ejaculation.

I don't know who to blame, my stupidity or the ones that promote jelqing without even telling the risks and the dangers of doing it without caution.

I was to 6 urologists , done all possible tests in my thirld world country could offer (except doppler and nerves testing and vein)

I have fought all possible anxiety and tired various ED meds, nothing helps to change my situation : I get rock hard just with bended knees

Before my visit to the 7th urologist, I kindly ask you, an opinion, anything that could help me identify faster what is the root of my problem, if there is such as I suspect, what could have I damaged down there ? and what is to be done ?

I spent all days searching for similar injuries from jelqing and I found something regarding the ligament, if so, how can I test this ligament?

So far thanks from all my heart to Big Al for suggesting me on the other thread to try test first the doppler and nerves testing mri before I rule out everything.

But I want to know how to test this ligament too, and if there is anything else I could test,

thank you
 

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Reminder: I am not a medical provider.

It sounds like perhaps one or more valves that close to restrict blood flowing back out of the penis during erection, was compromised by your injury. And that the bent knee posture happens to apply pressure on the affected veins and helps restrict outflow, essentially doing the work of the affected valves.

The Doppler exam suggested by another member should confirm or refute this hypothesis.
 

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Know when you lost total erections, i have not been hard in years, you learn to have sex with a softy. I sometimes masturbate with a softy and cumm to loose. Mine wife cann let me cumm with playing with mine balls prostate and willy.
The luck for us big guys is that there is some left to play with.
 

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You have a very mild form of position-dependent ED. A urologist specializing in ED should be able to confirm what's going on, and suggest treatment. Obviously, finding one will be your challenge.
 

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Be glad you cann get hard. After a sexincident i never got hard anymore.

Please explain ?

And did you find the cause of it on any tests ? which one were them ?

I've read on a forum that jelqing injuries can cause ligament damage, any clue how can I test if the ligament is ok ?
 

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It happend On a small holliday. I gond to the docter after 3 days. During the operation they saw to much scar tissue and could not repair the swells. Lucky i cann urinate without problems. After thus accident i have trid a pump. No option hurts to much. So never errected anymore. But still cumms with a soft still produce sperm.
 

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Hi! again guys, I feel like someone is lying to me,



Either something is going on..

Few replies on this thread showed me guys who said : I am 100% rock hard in all positions, yet, after a bit of asking here and there I got answers like : you cannot be rock-hard when girl is on top, etc.

I have spent TIME watching (without being aroused) PORN, just checking the guys cocks and erection power.

I find no clip in which the girl is on top and the guy has rock-hard erection,

Now, considering that PORN is something above reality, and guys there have even tons of viagra and special scenes to make everything look BETTER,

how come that they have softer erection in some positions ?

Doesn't that MEAN that it is absolutely normal to be SOFTER in some positions, example : girl on top ?

Because no matter what I do, I simply cannot get ULTRA ROCK HARD when girl is on top or in various positions, and I start to suspect that happens to everyone and it is normal;

..and the ones who said that they get rock-hard in all positions... lied.

What do you honestly ,think ? I really need to find the truth because I don't know what NORMAL is, after my INJURY.

Please understand me and give a HONEST

answer,
thank you
 

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The positions really have nothing to do with it. Some people love certain positions and other people love other and it is normal. What works for someone, might not work for you. If you want really high sexual drive and erections you should use stuff like Kamagra from https://espanolfarmacia.net/kamagra-precio/. They are selling it for good price and it 100% works. You will be "rock hard" in every position and it will last longer with much better feeling.