hi, im new here. just came to see if i could get some advice for me and my man. im a relatively inexperienced woman, one previous male partner with low average size. my current partner now he has had no experience with sex before me. he is a guenuine 8 inches average though when hes really horny can easy be 8 and a half and there was this one time when im sure he would of been nearer nine if we measured. i didnt know it was possible to be that big! were completely in love and lucky for me hes naturally talented and really sensitive in bed. i cum every time which is great. problem is hes soo big that every time even if im already really horny it takes a little while for me to be able to take him all. hes at uni so there can be a couple of weeks between seeing him sometimes. when i do see him, first time is always the most difficult, seems like it takes me ages to adapt. hes really sweet about it and doesnt try to rush me at all but its really frustrating. we are both late teens and very active, 2-4 times daily. and i definately want him but even with doing it so much i never seem to be able to just jump on. i always need to go slow for the first couple minutes, with half strokes before i can take him fully. and then when i have him all a lot of the time i can feel the tip inside pushing against the top of my v and it can be uncomfortable. i often feel bruised inside afterwards. its soo frustrating cos i get soo incredibly horny for him and then cant take it like i want to. i have a bit of a sub kink and would love to be able to go straight into hard and fast, get bent over and thoroughly fucked with no warning etc, but im not into pain and i know he would never hurt me. have tried being tied up but its hard to be a sub when your in control the whole time so he doesnt hurt you. also, i am using contraceptive injection and completely trust my partner and know i was his first, he is uncircumsised and i have had sex with him without condoms, i wasnt expecting it to be any different but surprisingly found it much more comfortable. im guessing cos the foreskin is able to move and reduce friction. however my partner says that he feels no real difference and prefers with condoms as it saves mess, which i admit is a big bonus as he cums a lot. is there any help on making condoms more comfortable for the girl? any better brands? i dont always tell my partner when its uncomfortable cos i dont want him to stop or feel bad about having a big penis and it does get better. i just feel so frustrated about it and kind of like ive failed. i should be able to have sex with my boyfriend when i want to! with my previous partner who was a small average (as far as i know ave is about six-six and a half) he used to say that he loved sex with me because i had such a small/tight v. i used to take it as a compliment, now im starting to think its a curse. does anyone know anything that can help?