Please help me understand! Gay or straight?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by snottybooger, Jun 6, 2008.

  1. snottybooger

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    I really don't understand why there are men on here commenting about each other's dicks. I mean, Ok.... this is a forum and support group for people (men) with large penises. So... I can understand why other men post pictures of their penises (for me it's the pleasure of receiving a comment and just showing the world what I have as I feel secure enough to do so.) However, there are some men who claim to be 100% straight and they comment on other member's penises in such a way that makes me think they're gay or at least bisexual. For example "oh yeah, great penis - its so fat and perfect, hot body..." So... what I want to know is, what am I missing? I claim to be about 10% gay because personally I don't believe in sexuality. It's very fluid and I like to admire all things beautiful. Are the members on this site claiming to be straight lying, or are the comments on other penises part of the 'support group' objective? I am sorry to point this out and I hope it does not offend anyone in anyway way. I actually think it's great to praise people and make kind comments regardless of sexuality. Keep up the work guys! Great site and I am glad I have found it. I have posted my pics, and comments are more than welcomed from anyone.
     
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    Camel.

    I think the admiration of Cocks, Dicks, Penises or what ever you care to call them is a mutual thing, that guys can say in a safe way, as unlike face to face or in a changing room, would seem real weird. Yes sometimes it is because they are gay, or just in admiration.

    If you see a guy with a fit body, have a full six pack, good muscles, you might admire him, but not want to go to bed with him, (although some might) , but would feel awkward saying to another guy, especially if str8, saying nice body man, or in this case here, nice cock. -

    Nobody really has to worry if you are in a group such as lpsg, most people don't use their real name as their member name, only usually when they PM each other. You can be who you want without judgement, because nobody really knows who you are. GAY, STRAIGHT, BI or indeed what experience you have unless you tell them. (and some of those aren't necessarily true)

    Just take any comments as they are meant, usually complements, have fun, flurt if you wish, it's all good fun.
     
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    Yeah dont worry about it, percentages and figures are only labels. I would give you 10 out of 10 by the way (and mean it!).

    I suppose one could equally wonder why somebody who is only 10% gay has a delicious provocative and submissive arse picture on their profile? Its a sliding scale, I have 1% straight in my profile-what the hell's that mean? Better not to analyse
     
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    Hahaha

    Thanks guys. It's true what you're both saying. My "totally straight" friend who I have known for years had the courage to tell me he thought some other guy was really good looking once time. This is really unusual for many straight guys. They may feel/think it, but seldom do they say it. So I guess online it's much easier to express these opinions. Furthermore, I have noted that there are actually female members on this forum, so my ass pic is not just for the pleasure of the male, but the female. It's great to see a wide array of people here who can express their opinions. I have always used forums but this is the first one I have joined and contributed to. Excellent!
     
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    Why can't men just know male beauty when they see it, and why can't they point it out?
     
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    @ AlteredEgo

    This is the point I just made. For some men, it's their pride. Or something that they want to hide. I think it's great to admire all beauty, in what ever form.
     
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    Well AlteredEgo, show us some pictures and we get a chance to see how beautiful you are ... lol
     
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    If she wanted pics, she'd have 'em up already.

    Nice try though... :no:
     
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    Well, I have been questioning that same thing. I have a bf online who resently took all his photos off. I really didn't appreciate the fact that other men were admiring him. I told him and he removed all his photos. Several gay men commented and the posts seem to be saying he was in contact with them. Is he really straight? Well I looked at his myspace page and his sexual orientation said)=NO ANSWER? Is he straight? Now when I speak to him he won't answer either. I guess he is not straight.
     
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    JUST the simple fact about men talking to each other about penises is very SEXUAL, so it's normal that the 'gayness' in the most HETEROSEXUAL man, comes out in ways, logic can't explain!
     
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    I totally agree. I would not worry about it. As long as he does not cheat on you with a man, I think it's fine. However, I do think he should be honest with you. I mean, if he doesn't answer you he may have something to hide. But I would do it was caution... just approach him in a timely manner when you both are relaxing and don't be confrontational. Just allow him to answer in the way that is comfortable for him without him thinking you are digging at him. Women admire other women's bodies all the time.
     
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    You know, I don't know; to be honest I don't think anyone really knows.
     
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    If one admires, in both an aesthetic and sexual context an object does this state anything about him sexually? To say "Nice proportions" is one thing, but to go into detail admiring the very essense of the phallus and taking hold of it's sexual capabilities is another, real or imagined, in my opinion.

    I'm young though. :]
     
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    Bro, first, welcome to the club!!
    You seem like a together kind of guy, willing to accept people as they are. This site can always benefit from someone like you.
    BTW, you are a extremely good looking dude, and not only good looking but sexy as hell. Try not to be offended by guys in here who might want you to explore your 10%. Take it as a compliment.
    I look forward to chatting with you in the future.
     
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    Aachooo...

    *Random sneeze by pup*
     
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    random sneeze by pup? LOL what???
     
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    hey man, I just enjoy the sight of a good looking man, with a hot body and a hot cock! Doesn't mean I want to fuck them. Some of my favorite porn is guys masturbating. When I see a cock, I like to imagine its attached to my body. I like to think of what it would be like to be that big, and to give me pleasure. Still doesn't me I want to be fucked by it.
     
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    ...and no one said bless you, tut, tut.
     
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    i dont speak with animals on a daily basis. but then again im a camel, i dont think camels and pups have good intercommunication skills....
     
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