He loves me, and i love him.. but we're both not out.. we're 20 yo, and although my family is pretty open to gay relationships.. his isnt. Its a pretty religious closed family, who keep asking him to meet his gf. He says he wants to break up with me, and get on with a girl, so that he makes his family AND his friends happy, isntead of making himself happy. A pretty selfless decision. Although i want to support him in every decision he makes, as i cant be so selfish as to oblige him to stay with me, deep down i know he's not taking the right path. He will make himself unhappy, his wife, and his chidlren, and maybe fuck up his family later in life if he decides he cant manage his "straight" life. I dont even think he can get hard for girls. What should i do?