k this is my first post so bare with me. my problem is me and my girlfriend have finally managed to get sex to work and we've done it half a dozen times and it allways hurts her we've started using lube but it doesant seem to be helping a noticable amount. im fairly big 8.5x7.5 but i thought she would adapt after a few times i guess im looking for ideas or just help and on top of that ive never got off with her im thinking cause its painfull for her so im not really in to it and she think that the condoms to tight and is restricting blood flow. Im only 18 and this seems to be an on going problem with all the girls ive been with or at least the ones iv'e fit into please help!!