First off, I want to say a BIG thank you to everyone on the board, you know who you are, you have helped me really put this into perspective, ( wife seeing another man ) and have really been my only means for support.
so here is the latest.
this morning My wife and I were having a conversation about where we stand right now in our marriage.
she is "working on" getting the feelings back that she -once- had for me,
I cant really blame her, i was a drunk prick for a lot of years.
anywho... she told me today that she was "in love" with the man she had been seeing on the side. she met with him 4 times, and talked to him a lot on the phone... for my money that isn't enough to fall in "love" with someone..
has anyone here had a affair that they got envolved with someone, and devolped feelings for that person, then went back to thier spouse/bf/gf, and if so, how long did it take for YOU to get back in the "groove" with them?
thanks again for your help.
werfghj
so here is the latest.
this morning My wife and I were having a conversation about where we stand right now in our marriage.
she is "working on" getting the feelings back that she -once- had for me,
I cant really blame her, i was a drunk prick for a lot of years.
anywho... she told me today that she was "in love" with the man she had been seeing on the side. she met with him 4 times, and talked to him a lot on the phone... for my money that isn't enough to fall in "love" with someone..
has anyone here had a affair that they got envolved with someone, and devolped feelings for that person, then went back to thier spouse/bf/gf, and if so, how long did it take for YOU to get back in the "groove" with them?
thanks again for your help.
werfghj
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