dongalong said:
Have any of you thought "if only he was bigger, he'd be perfect!" ?
now that I think about it... my most major relationship pre-hub was with an average guy, and I remember sometimes just feeling this ache deep inside when I came, from not being filled deeply. I was researching which (big) toy to buy for occasional use, a few months before the relationship really came apart. I did want to do it carefully so that he wouldn't feel insecure... then again we were having nowhere near enough sex, so how could he complain if I needed to get some from a toy... anyway that's another story.
point is, that would have been my way of dealing with it if he had been "the one." not asking him to PE, just using equipment every now and again.