I came across this site as I was doing some research on sexual activities that my partner is interested in. I am a much older woman and I have an 18 year old lover who is very sexually curious about threesomes and sex in a public place. He is quite an experienced lover and is very well endowed so he has fantasies of being able to share this gift of his endowment with others as well as having an audience. He trusts me to hook up some of these experiences for him and that is how I ended up becoming a member of this site. As I began searching around the site I also came across various groups that I would like to myself participate in as I feel that the anonymity makes it easier and safer to express myself regarding my own sexuality. I have promised him to set up some these surprises and funtimes for the Christmas holidays so I am trying to figure out the best way to first of all set up a threesome. My big question to myself is whether I should just get 2 females and just watch as he indulges or should I be one part of the threesome. I actually would like to myself try it both ways. Anyone has some comments or advise to make about this?? And how about sex in a public place? Any suggestions? I am in Southern California. Anyone have personal experience with any of the Swingers Clubs here? I am new to this type of website so I do trust that I have done the right thing here asking for advice.