Pleasure Caused By Girth

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A question for those, men or women, who may have something to contribute.

My girlfriend's ex was very girthy and she enjoyed it immensely (no I'm not into SPH just kinkily curious and we are quite comfortable talking about it).

Because I'm below average in length and girth, I've always been curious as to why girthy is more pleasurable for the tiny minority of women to which she belongs (I say this because on certain sections of this site, it's made savagely clear that there is absolutely no difference in pleasure regardless if the penis is 3 or 6 or 8 inches long or thick).

When I asked why, she found it difficult to explain but to make it relatable she said it was probably the difference between her giving me an extremely light handjob and giving a death-grip one. Which would I find more pleasurable, she asked? I told her a firm grip, not too light and not too tight. She said that was probably what she felt - a modest girth would be a teasing pleasure while the firmer it got, the more intense the pressure on her walls and therefore the pleasure. But only up to a point - once it got to a very hard death grip (ie an extremely girthy penis) it became less desirable again.

I found this comparison fascinating, and wonder if anybody can comment on what their female partners have said regarding this.

(Please do not direct this to the Ask a Woman forum as anything to do with a male asking about size related to pleasure usually unleashes a torrent of contempt)
 
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I was onboard with this up to the point you mentioned Ask A Woman and torrent of contempt in the same breath.

I have yet to come across a genuine, normal, non repulsive question which garners a torrent of contempt.
 

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I was onboard with this up to the point you mentioned Ask A Woman and torrent of contempt in the same breath.

I have yet to come across a genuine, normal, non repulsive question which garners a torrent of contempt.
Please do not take offence @cherryboom66 . I just know from personal experience that size related questions are not generally appreciated there, and are often dismissed as men looking for confirmation that bigger is better, so I steer clear.
 

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It is offensive though, so it’s hard not to be offended. It is gaslighting and something everyone should be mindful of, having an opinion and not wanting everything to be about sex and size doesn’t make someone angry and abusive.
In terms of your question and the subject topic, IMHO it was as respectful as it could have been and could be an interesting discussion.
Your post *really* didn’t need the disclaimer of “I don’t want to direct this just to women, they are far too angry”.
 

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girls love girth than lenght...lenght can hurt but girth make them feel stretched and they love it...al least my girl does ;)
of course with a thicker cock you can't do anal :(
Women. Your partner is a woman.
 
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It is offensive though, so it’s hard not to be offended. It is gaslighting and something everyone should be mindful of, having an opinion and not wanting everything to be about sex and size doesn’t make someone angry and abusive.
In terms of your question and the subject topic, IMHO it was as respectful as it could have been and could be an interesting discussion.
Your post *really* didn’t need the disclaimer of “I don’t want to direct this just to women, they are far too angry”.
Oh dear, just the thing I wanted to avoid has attracted just that - getting tangled in anything except the answer to my question. I am genuinely sorry and retract my use of the words. offending wasn't my intention. Last time I posted a question here it was directed to ask a woman, which is why I placed the disclaimer
 

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Oh dear, just the thing I wanted to avoid has attracted just that - getting tangled in anything except the answer to my question. I am genuinely sorry and retract my use of the words. offending wasn't my intention. Last time I posted a question here it was directed to ask a woman, which is why I placed the disclaimer
What was the post you are referring to? Can you link it for me.
 
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Enough with the drama and back to the original question. Sex with a thick penis (6.5" girth and over) is a completely different experience for both the male and female. Another universe of pleasure and intensity. There's nothing like the feeling of being "too thick" to enter and then slowly working it in, bit by bit. The huffing and panting, the tightness and resistance, the need to grip the base of your fat cock (which makes it even thicker) so it won't bend and buckle. She'll squeal with pleasure when you finally get it all the way in and then cum within seconds, bucking and moaning all the way. Loads of creamy wetness squirting from her quivering, throbbing pussy as it clamps down tightly on your thick shaft. Need I say more?
 

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Girth make the girls feel like they are completely filled up. However it always take a good bit of work (foreplay) or lube to get it in and the skinny dicked guys don't have to worry about that.
 
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A question for those, men or women, who may have something to contribute.

My girlfriend's ex was very girthy and she enjoyed it immensely (no I'm not into SPH just kinkily curious and we are quite comfortable talking about it).

Because I'm below average in length and girth, I've always been curious as to why girthy is more pleasurable for the tiny minority of women to which she belongs (I say this because on certain sections of this site, it's made savagely clear that there is absolutely no difference in pleasure regardless if the penis is 3 or 6 or 8 inches long or thick).

When I asked why, she found it difficult to explain but to make it relatable she said it was probably the difference between her giving me an extremely light handjob and giving a death-grip one. Which would I find more pleasurable, she asked? I told her a firm grip, not too light and not too tight. She said that was probably what she felt - a modest girth would be a teasing pleasure while the firmer it got, the more intense the pressure on her walls and therefore the pleasure. But only up to a point - once it got to a very hard death grip (ie an extremely girthy penis) it became less desirable again.

I found this comparison fascinating, and wonder if anybody can comment on what their female partners have said regarding this.

(Please do not direct this to the Ask a Woman forum as anything to do with a male asking about size related to pleasure usually unleashes a torrent of contempt)
I am way above average in girth. My partners love the way it stretches them open so wide. I know i loves the feeling of there grip their pussy has on my fatty. The down side-either it doesn’t fit (like mutt current partner) or it causes them pain. Plus and down sides to having a fatty