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A question for those, men or women, who may have something to contribute.
My girlfriend's ex was very girthy and she enjoyed it immensely (no I'm not into SPH just kinkily curious and we are quite comfortable talking about it).
Because I'm below average in length and girth, I've always been curious as to why girthy is more pleasurable for the tiny minority of women to which she belongs (I say this because on certain sections of this site, it's made savagely clear that there is absolutely no difference in pleasure regardless if the penis is 3 or 6 or 8 inches long or thick).
When I asked why, she found it difficult to explain but to make it relatable she said it was probably the difference between her giving me an extremely light handjob and giving a death-grip one. Which would I find more pleasurable, she asked? I told her a firm grip, not too light and not too tight. She said that was probably what she felt - a modest girth would be a teasing pleasure while the firmer it got, the more intense the pressure on her walls and therefore the pleasure. But only up to a point - once it got to a very hard death grip (ie an extremely girthy penis) it became less desirable again.
I found this comparison fascinating, and wonder if anybody can comment on what their female partners have said regarding this.
(Please do not direct this to the Ask a Woman forum as anything to do with a male asking about size related to pleasure usually unleashes a torrent of contempt)
My girlfriend's ex was very girthy and she enjoyed it immensely (no I'm not into SPH just kinkily curious and we are quite comfortable talking about it).
Because I'm below average in length and girth, I've always been curious as to why girthy is more pleasurable for the tiny minority of women to which she belongs (I say this because on certain sections of this site, it's made savagely clear that there is absolutely no difference in pleasure regardless if the penis is 3 or 6 or 8 inches long or thick).
When I asked why, she found it difficult to explain but to make it relatable she said it was probably the difference between her giving me an extremely light handjob and giving a death-grip one. Which would I find more pleasurable, she asked? I told her a firm grip, not too light and not too tight. She said that was probably what she felt - a modest girth would be a teasing pleasure while the firmer it got, the more intense the pressure on her walls and therefore the pleasure. But only up to a point - once it got to a very hard death grip (ie an extremely girthy penis) it became less desirable again.
I found this comparison fascinating, and wonder if anybody can comment on what their female partners have said regarding this.
(Please do not direct this to the Ask a Woman forum as anything to do with a male asking about size related to pleasure usually unleashes a torrent of contempt)