Pleasure Caused By Girth

[lapdog2001]

I've always been curious as to why girthy is more pleasurable for the tiny minority of women to which she belongs

When I asked why, she found it difficult to explain but to make it relatable she said it was probably the difference between her giving me an extremely light handjob and giving a death-grip one. Which would I find more pleasurable, she asked? I told her a firm grip, not too light and not too tight. She said that was probably what she felt - a modest girth would be a teasing pleasure while the firmer it got, the more intense the pressure on her walls and therefore the pleasure. But only up to a point - once it got to a very hard death grip (ie an extremely girthy penis) it became less desirable again.

I found this comparison fascinating, and wonder if anybody can comment on what their female partners have said regarding this.

Answering the original question about girth, the women I've been with have commented that my larger girth "fills them up" more than a penis of average girth. Being blessed with some above average length, combined with a 98-99 percentile girth, and women have always enjoyed me in them. The only downside is that almost no women had interest in even trying anal, and only a few could get most of my shaft deep in their throats.

 

[Gj816]

I've been told by the women I've been with that it makes them feel full of cock. The stretch, the death grip clamping, the flood of juices. Ummm feels so good.

 

[VikingJay]

And good blowjobs are pretty much non existant. unless you meet a woman with a mouth like Julia Roberts. 100% erect I am 7"x7" I have never had my dick in anyone's mouth past a couple of inches. And the anal thing is true, I have been with a ton of women never had one say yes to anal. I also look short when flaccid even though I am 4½" long by 6 girth limp.
But I get hit up by a few of my ex's on social media all the time. Most of them trying to cheat on their current relationship.

 

[curious_hung_uncut]

And good blowjobs are pretty much non existant. unless you meet a woman with a mouth like Julia Roberts. 100% erect I am 7"x7" I have never had my dick in anyone's mouth past a couple of inches. And the anal thing is true, I have been with a ton of women never had one say yes to anal. I also look short when flaccid even though I am 4½" long by 6 girth limp.
But I get hit up by a few of my ex's on social media all the time. Most of them trying to cheat on their current relationship.

Im 7x8 and had plenty of BJ's all the way into their mouths. Anal just needs time and TONS of lube.

 

[Redheadchi]

I have found, through my past relationships, that they like how they get stretched and feel full. I can't say for sure but I know after I stretch my muscles I feel relaxed and would imagine it's a similar feeling. There are cons which have been said already. Anal is out of the question more often than not and a good bj is harder to find. That behind said there are plenty of people out there that can accommodate large girth and prefer it.

I had an ex that was the best bj I ever had but couldn't handle my girth during sex. Also, one ex who had a hard time blowing me but loved to have me pound her hard.

Still have yet to get more than just my head in anally though.

 

[deleted1168963]

And good blowjobs are pretty much non existant. unless you meet a woman with a mouth like Julia Roberts. 100% erect I am 7"x7" I have never had my dick in anyone's mouth past a couple of inches. And the anal thing is true, I have been with a ton of women never had one say yes to anal. I also look short when flaccid even though I am 4½" long by 6 girth limp.
But I get hit up by a few of my ex's on social media all the time. Most of them trying to cheat on their current relationship.

Amen to what you said. I’ve had one gal, only one who took almost all of it. Most it was a couple of inches. A couple gals couldn't even open their mouth wide enough to take in the head. And only one gal who let me In her back door. I can’t even get another one to even try. Ugh

 

[love2compare]

I think any pussy gets used to some amount of girth over time. Thus when suddenly adding more girth or different techniques it should be remarkable.

However, even though me and my wife have sex for over 17 years now, i can make her cum the hardest when she is super horny herself and i'm certainly no thick fucker at all haha... so i believe girth has some effect 'in the beginning' but after a while you need to proove being a great lover as well...

 

[Tylet]

Every one of the (many) women I've been with has commented on not only the size of my cock but also its 'unusual shape'.
In its 8.25" length its girth gradually increases - from 6" around the raised rim of its head, to 6.5" mid-shaft, to 7" around the base. One of them, an obstetric nurse, described it as a 'natural dilator' ...... and because of this I've never had a partner who couldn't 'take it' (after suitable getting ready), even those who initially showed doubt because they had only previously experienced 'average sized' cocks. All of them showed by their sounds and bodily reactions, and many said afterwards, how much they enjoyed and got great sensations from being 'filled and stretched', the greatest stretching being from the thick base being at their tightest part, and the way that that stretching 'pulled their clit down to press and rub against the shaft, increasing even more their sensations and pleasure; the best way to achieve this is to only 'nudge fuck' (press in, relax, push in) or only withdraw an inch or so before going back in.
I think that what one partner told me is (probably) true for all women ----- they don't only want to feel being fucked (or made love to) but also like to be able to feel that they've been well fucked (made love to) for some time afterwards, which the 'average sized' cock doesn't always achieve.
This may seem to be going against the much quoted "size doesn't matter" but I cannot believe that in over 50 partners I have, by some strange accident of fate, only come across, and cum in, 'size queens'. I do, now know, that several of my partners 'made themselves available' because they had previous knowledge of my size/shape - out of curiosity and or dissatisfaction/frustration with what they were getting.
Like others I have never experienced more than oral just to my knob and never had any show interest in anal ---- just the opposite, any time my cock has approached anywhere near their anus it has been made very clear that that is a 'no go zone' as far as I'm concerned.

 

[VikingJay]

Im 7x8 and had plenty of BJ's all the way into their mouths. Anal just needs time and TONS of lube.

I need to see a photo with a soft tape of 8" mid shaft girth or I call bullshit.

 

[VikingJay]

and any BJ I do get(which is just the head) last no longer than 5 minutes due to jaw pain. but boy do they love to play with it. especially when I am semi hard or "fluffy"

 

[masonjames]

My wife and I married when we were teenages and she has never had another man to compare me to. She knows I'm thick but has gotten so use to it over the years that she doesn't realize how few men have my girth. It's just my dick to her and she can handle it LOL.

 

[Gusgilman]

A four inch pipe--a four inch circle----has four times the volume of a two inch, not twice as much-- as its doubled, both ways

No, not saying four inch tool---just easy example

Any way, way more vol, very strong, stretches all directions

 

[DeclanBrent]

My wife and I married when we were teenages and she has never had another man to compare me to. She knows I'm thick but has gotten so use to it over the years that she doesn't realize how few men have my girth. It's just my dick to her and she can handle it LOL.

My gf had had one boyfriend before me, huge. Couldn't feel me at first, but when we learned some positions and to stay away from lube, it got better. In a heart to heart she told me she honestly thought he was the standard size because she'd not looked at porn and didn't know better. She only realized after the relationship she'd been lucky enough to have what many women are curious about. Her verdict: his girth was delicious, the thicker the better to a point, but if it was delicious girth versus small average with a guy she loved, no competition. Which means in her case at least: 'size mattered, until it was trumped by love'.

 

[DeclanBrent]

A four inch pipe--a four inch circle----has four times the volume of a two inch, not twice as much-- as its doubled, both ways

No, not saying four inch tool---just easy example

Any way, way more vol, very strong, stretches all directions

This reminds me of a reporter a couple of years ago who went around campus asking if size mattered (on YT I think). Anyway one guy summed it up perfectly: it's a simple matter of diameter. The more something presses against pleasure receptors (up to a point), anywhere on the body, the more pleasurable it is, and penetrative sex is no exception. In fact, this surely increases with penetrative sex because you're involving physical attraction (so brain activity) and any indirect pressure on the clitoris. By that measure, size very obviously matters, and anybody who says it doesn't is either lying, ignorant or speaking strictly for themselves.

 

[DeclanBrent]

Answering the original question about girth, the women I've been with have commented that my larger girth "fills them up" more than a penis of average girth. Being blessed with some above average length, combined with a 98-99 percentile girth, and women have always enjoyed me in them. The only downside is that almost no women had interest in even trying anal, and only a few could get most of my shaft deep in their throats.

It's the 'fills me up' that intrigues me. My gf agreed with this terminology regarding her ex boyfriend's very large girth. But being of a curious and scientific disposition, I wanted to know what that actually meant. I can't comprehend what it must be like to be 'filled up' and enjoy it. I really don't enjoy anal sex with men - it's a nothing blah sensation, and sometimes just blandly painful. So to me 'filled up' doesn't sound pleasurable. Many women, despite their superior communicative skills in relation to most men, clearly find it difficult to explain that feeling in any detail.

 

[DeclanBrent]

However, even though me and my wife have sex for over 17 years now, i can make her cum the hardest when she is super horny herself and i'm certainly no thick fucker at all haha... so i believe girth has some effect 'in the beginning' but after a while you need to proove being a great lover as well...

This is probably the closest to the truth. As much as us unendowed guys may think we're missing out on not giving women those incredible sensations, my common sense compass tells me that any pleasurable stimulation will lose its edge after the body adapts. I have no idea how long it would take the body to adapt, but in simple terms I'm thinking of the sports massages I get for my chronic back pain. If I haven't had one for a long time, it feels ecstatic, the muscles are celebrating. But on the occasions where I've had them for four or five days straight, they definitely lose that euphoric tension release sensation. It becomes nornalized. I guess - only a guess - that that would be the same for a woman experiencing a very pleasurable girth day after day, week after week.

 

[DeclanBrent]

I've been told by the women I've been with that it makes them feel full of cock. The stretch, the death grip clamping, the flood of juices. Ummm feels so good.

Death grip clamping? Does that refer to the squeezing of the vaginal muscles on climax? I read a column from a woman online saying there was nothing better than sex with a very large guy because of the 'crunching down' on something particularly big on climax. Again, this must be clearly pleasurable for some woman, but it's intriguing to know exactly what causes the pleasure in that moment.

 

[DeclanBrent]

I have found, through my past relationships, that they like how they get stretched and feel full. I can't say for sure but I know after I stretch my muscles I feel relaxed and would imagine it's a similar feeling.

I reckon you have it spot on. I guess my question here would be - I know the sensation you're talking about with stretching. But that ain't euphoric, it's just very briefly relaxing and satisfying. When you read some accounts of how much women enjoy girth, and some big guys experience of women going nuts over their girth, I struggle to believe that it is just a 'relaxing' sensation that is causing them to cum really hard.

 

[love2compare]

LOVE only?

You and your new gf match in many ways and the "overall package" consists of your personality, attitude, passion, stamina, attraction to her, capabilities, body, and yeah cock - and many things more...

In this context 1+1 equals much more than just 2!

My gf had had one boyfriend before me, huge. Couldn't feel me at first, but when we learned some positions and to stay away from lube, it got better. In a heart to heart she told me she honestly thought he was the standard size because she'd not looked at porn and didn't know better. She only realized after the relationship she'd been lucky enough to have what many women are curious about. Her verdict: his girth was delicious, the thicker the better to a point, but if it was delicious girth versus small average with a guy she loved, no competition. Which means in her case at least: 'size mattered, until it was trumped by love'.