i just have to throw this out there... lady bits are a fairly tight packed area of the lower abdomen. when you see the anatomical line drawings ya are seeing the bits splayed out for clarity. like, heaps of folks think the vag runs straight up and down, and the cervix sits on the top of the 'gina, like a stopper. no, the vag points back and up, like a cooter arrow on the lower spine, with the cervix chilling on the upper wall at the middle/back third of the who-ha. doctors *the one you would see if you were one of those ladies of a certain age or have experienced child birth

* can palpate your ovaries through the vaginal wall :smile:
so... ya have the vag-freeway.. the uterus sitting over the last third of the vagina, tilt forward toward the belly button a angle. the ovaries are tucked in a small pocked made by the vaginal barrel and the over-hanging bulb of the uterus top. ovaries and fallopian tubes are kinda cradled in this web of connective tissue. all folded/tucked/snugged in there.
the vault of the fornix is the where two worlds/bits collide. off to the left/right of the cervix is tender land. neither area loaded with funtime buffers of erogenous tissue. and just on the other side of the vaginal wall... BOOM ovaries.
the most common way for ovaries to be bumped? the previously mention doctor assisted palpation and funky penetration angles.
when lecturing on dumbass don't double down on the dumbass.. this ain't Vegas
Viva Las Vagas *is easily amused*
to the OP Lady - yeah, i've had the ache a few times when ovulation horny overrides any clear thoughts of "that is gonna hurt tomorrow" caution. same thing with "the boy has been out of town too damn long now he's back and i am gonna smex him into a coma" love down.
a quick cure for me is a lower abdomen massage... flat hand on the belly just above the pubic bone.. press in and down, rub. after about 15 mins no more ouchies. i figure the massage increases blood flow, moves out any fluid congestion caused by ruff handling?