@mojoman
@Asianbol666
You are extremely capable with wet orgasm. Unfortunately you will lose much of your capability as you age. Your limitations are that wet orgasms require a refractory period that can vary greatly in length of time. It is true that a man can have SOME control over the time interval. If he is really aroused and willing to "fight through" that feeling that he is satisfied, he can get back to that point where he is starting to feel the pleasure again and maybe lead to another orgasm. But even the most intense man has his limitations here.
In addition the wet orgasm has another characteristic. It wears you out. I am not speaking of the physical effort of thrusting, fucking etc. but rather the body requires a lot of energy to simply generate more sperm. ( I know.. get real. The body needs energy to create sperm? Yeah it does and I know that now since I am never tired from many serious orgasm. To me this is absolute proof that this energy thing is true)The result is that you have these two characteristics (the refractory period and the tiredness factor) that makes you want to stop. Of course we are all aware that the woman does not have these limitations and, if she is multi-orgasmic, she will be frustrated by your quitting. Now most women just understand that this is a fact of life and grow to accept it. But a man's stamina is probably the single most desired aspect of a man the women seeks.
Consider this also. Dry orgasms (traditional orgasms without the ejaculation) have a great characteristic: You do not lose energy... you GAIN energy. You never get tired of orgasming. However, because you now have MANY orgasms, with MORE intensity, you want to fuck forever and obviously this puts a physical strain on your muscle structure depending on your technique. But, even at my age, I am able to go for more than an hour having many orgasms and intense spasms and never have the feeling that you have to quit. When it is over, I might be shaking in the thighs etc. because of the positions I used. (think doing leg strength exercises for skiing. Give your self a minute of recovery and you are good to go again.)
Now the whole point of this thread is to tell other men that they do have a choice. Once learned, you never have to pace yourself while fucking. Just think.. when you get "that" feeling you tell yourself you want more of it, RIGHT NOW! You know that you can make your orgasm even more intense and more exciting. AND once you have this first intense orgasm the next can be just a few seconds away. Etc. You are let out o the ejaculation jail. You are free to really work on the woman's pussy knowing that you can keep this up for as long as the woman can stand it. There is more to this, but just this should get you interested. You have a choice whether you want to learn to do this!
This is not wishful thinking. It is within your reach if you are willing to spend the time. You should think about it and make an informed choice whether you want to learn this. Don't just blow this off as the wild fantasy of an old man. I made a choice and it works. My life has really been changed. As VP Biden said... "This is a BIG FUCKING DEAL!". I don't like Biden but I do like his expression.