Poll: How Rough Do You Like Sex?

What do you like to include during sex?

  • spanking

  • face slapping

  • punching

  • physical domination

  • psychological domination

  • verbal humiliation

  • beating

  • choke blowjobs

  • strangling while fucking


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I'm curious to know the "degree of roughness" of the sex people like.
Check what you like to do, what you like people to do to you or what you wish to ask but never dared. Multiple choices available.
It goes without saying, all the following behaviors are to be considered consensual.
I didn't include bondage, fetish or use of objects (wax, pins, etc.) on purpose.
Thank you all!
 
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I'm curious to know the "degree of roughness" of the sex people like.
Check what you like to do, what you like people to do to you or what you wish to ask but never dared. Multiple choices available.
It goes without saying, all the following behaviors are to be considered consensual.
I didn't include bondage, fetish or use of objects (wax, pins, etc.) on purpose.
Thank you all!
I checked all but beating, and punching.
 
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Some of your options are really oddly put. I'm going to refrain until you come back with clarifications. And really I think all of the options should be defined in terms of their bottom line ("beating" being another example of an option that could really go for such a clarification).

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Some of your options are really oddly put. I'm going to refrain until you come back with clarifications. And really I think all of the options should be defined in terms of their bottom line ("beating" being another example of an option that could really go for such a clarification).

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Malakos, thank you for your post. Well, I tried to be as clear as possibile in my first post here: we're talking about sex and, I underlined, consensual acts.
Therefore just like anal sex is not intented to pierce your partner to death, so both strangling and beating are presumed here as agreed parts of a sexual intercourse, for pleasure purposes, until both but especially the receving person fells at ease.To what degree is subjective but certainly not to cause death or serious, permanent injuries.
I ma not an English native, so if you think there are better terms, please do suggest them, thank you ;)
 
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Malakos, thank you for your post. Well, I tried to be as clear as possibile in my first post here: we're talking about sex and, I underlined, consensual acts.
Therefore just like anal sex is not intented to pierce your partner to death, so both strangling and beating are presumed here as agreed parts of a sexual intercourse, for pleasure purposes, until both but especially the receving person fells at ease.To what degree is subjective but certainly not to cause death or serious, permanent injuries.
I ma not an English native, so if you think there are better terms, please do suggest them, thank you ;)

What do you mean by "punching" and "beating" such that they wouldn't involve serious risk of injury?

What do you mean by "physical domination"? And "psychological domination"?

What is a "choke blowjob"?
 
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As I said, the degree of such actions are not mine to define, everyone likes things differently and less or more intensly. I reply to your questions with some examples which don't want and can't be exhaustive but it's what I have in mind.
My answers in bold in the Quote box below.

What do you mean by "punching" and "beating" such that they wouldn't involve serious risk of injury?
You can punch against one's chest and still don't hurt them. Sometimes bottoms do that to their tops.
Same way, you can beat with no intention of injury but in a domination role playing.


What do you mean by "physical domination"? And "psychological domination"?
The former: e.g. when the top lays out on top of the bottom and blocks his movements.
The latter: e.g. asking the top to take every decision about what to do.


What is a "choke blowjob"?
When the blowjob is deep enough and lasts long enough that the sucker can't breath and\or has gag reflex.
 
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With a couple of guys I was totally dominant as that's what they wanted, verbal and slapping and making them totally submissive to my needs and desires. Didn't work with most guys but when it did it was amazing sex just treating them like objects to be fucked.
 

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I assume that if you don't like any of the listed behaviors, then you don't participate in the poll.
Or else you can suggest some more voices I didn't list.
You are correct that I don’t like any of the options. Therefore, only those who like “rough sex” have a voice. By including “none” we might see how prevalent these behaviors are against a larger group.
If you were seeking a poll limited to those who enjoy “rough sex” an “other” bucket would still be important to include behaviors not listed.
By restricting the poll to only those who engage in the activity, you’re creating a normative that I don’t believe exists.
This is simply my opinion and based on a past where I was beaten and raped by two men so I certainly come to this poll with a bias. I find the topic interesting because it’s so mind boggling to me.
 
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You are correct that I don’t like any of the options. Therefore, only those who like “rough sex” have a voice. By including “none” we might see how prevalent these behaviors are against a larger group.
If you were seeking a poll limited to those who enjoy “rough sex” an “other” bucket would still be important to include behaviors not listed.
By restricting the poll to only those who engage in the activity, you’re creating a normative that I don’t believe exists.
This is simply my opinion and based on a past where I was beaten and raped by two men so I certainly come to this poll with a bias. I find the topic interesting because it’s so mind boggling to me.

OKClane, first of all, I'm very sorry for what happened to you, as rape is never consensual, it's a hideous act and a crime.
The topic is interesting indeed.
I did not see the necessity to include the voice "none" because I am not measuring a degree of a behavior. I am curious to know which of the listed habits one likes the most to include in sex. So my purpose was NOT assessing IF these habits are common or otherwise. I admit my first post was misleading, so I thank you because with this reply I can correct myself (not the post, unfortunately).
Anyway, this issue was addressed already twice: some people would like to state they like those behaviors at all. Therefore I would include the voice but I can seam to be able to do it now, probably too many people have already voted. I'm sorry.
 
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OKClane, first of all, I'm very sorry for what happened to you, as rape is never consensual, it's a hideous act and a crime.
The topic is interesting indeed.
I did not see the necessity to include the voice "none" because I am not measuring a degree of a behavior. I am curious to know which of the listed habits one likes the most to include in sex. So my purpose was NOT assessing IF these habits are common or otherwise. I admit my first post was misleading, so I thank you because with this reply I can correct myself (not the post, unfortunately).
Anyway, this issue was addressed already twice: some people would like to state they like those behaviors at all. Therefore I would include the voice but I can seam to be able to do it now, probably too many people have already voted. I'm sorry.
Thank you @Blades25 for your thoughtful and reasoned response. I have a better idea of your perspective and what you were looking to discover.
I really appreciate guys, and you especially, who don’t take offense and choose a civil and constructive dialogue. Best wishes and I hope your poll gives you the answers you’re seeking.