Seeing as I'm 5.5 inches now and 5'9", I would choose tall. I have been rejected for my size or lack of a few times (don't get me wrong, I love and totally understand size queens and have very little insecurity), but I bet I would have more attention if I was taller-I am attractive (girls love my blue eyes and my butt) but there are a lot of women out there who just pass me up because of my height. I know size matters ( to 60-75% of women I would guess) but if you can't get in the game it doesn't matter how big your bat is!
I do feel sorry for the guys who are a lot taller than me but the same size down there...or a small black guy-women have expectations of size based on stereotypes sometimes...