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stud_hunter said:
No, I don't think I'm a bad person. And from what you've said, yes, your feelings on this issue are rediculous. You have a perfectly sufficient cock, and a girlfriend who apparently wants to be with you, and you seem so insecure in yourself that you're freaking that you can't satisfy her. Newsflash - she's had someone bigger than you. Maybe that guy you mentioned, or maybe someone else at some point, but you're not the biggest she's had, and yet she's choosing to be with you. That should tell you something.
Women who have normal breasts and get implants anyway are being rediculous because they're buying the hype. And guys who are so insecure they invent a problem where none exists, are being rediculous. I know you probably think it's all about the cock. It's not. It's only one aspect of your relationship and yet it seems to be getting most if not all of your attention/insecurity/hysteria.
If you're suicidal for some other reason, please get help. If you're suicidal because of your (normal) penis size, get over it.

Actually, I don`t think it`s all about cock, and I do think that I have perfectly sufficient cock. I even don`t have problem with fact that she had someone bigger than me, but what makes me desperate and what makes me feel bad, is her lack of enthusiasm for sex with me.
 

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sexwithangel said:
Actually, I don`t think it`s all about cock, and I do think that I have perfectly sufficient cock. I even don`t have problem with fact that she had someone bigger than me, but what makes me desperate and what makes me feel bad, is her lack of enthusiasm for sex with me.

AHA! That, my friend, is an entirely different post than the one you originally made. I suggest openness with her. Talk and listen. You'll either work through the problem together or you'll discover you aren't right for each other.
 

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BlackCock85 said:
Shouldnt this thread be in the Relationships, Discrimination and Jealousy section? And the original post did make me laugh because you were acting like the world was going to end. I especially love the "and i didnt cut my pubic hair" sounded like you injured her with your pubes. You have nothing to be worried about or freaking out about, but if there is a bigger problem that you would like to talk about or get opinions on you should express that problem in a better way in the future instead of the omg my dick is small its hairy and im going to kill myself.

I` not jelaous and I think I have big dick (it looks big to me). If someone is bigger I`m happy for him (if he is happy). That pubic hair part was joke. I posted in this section because, I think women here are higly sexual, same as my gf claims to be, so they can help me be a better lover. I am sexually selfconfident, (although my situation makes me feel insecure and crazy), I have perfectly sufficiant penis, I love my gf, maybe I can`t handle highly sexual women at the moment, but I can learn. Maybe I even manage to learn english on the way.
 

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stud_hunter said:
AHA! That, my friend, is an entirely different post than the one you originally made. I suggest openness with her. Talk and listen. You'll either work through the problem together or you'll discover you aren't right for each other.

Well, we talk openly. What I think to be a problem is that she doesn`t feel me right way when I`m inside her which makes me feel unsufficient and which makes her feeling unsatisfied. I think penis size is not really an issuse here, she even says I`m too big for her. I don`t know what "you`ll discover you aren`t right for each other" should mean.
 

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sexwithangel said:
Well, we talk openly. What I think to be a problem is that she doesn`t feel me right way when I`m inside her which makes me feel unsufficient and which makes her feeling unsatisfied. I think penis size is not really an issuse here, she even says I`m too big for her. I don`t know what "you`ll discover you aren`t right for each other" should mean.

I mean when you're in a relationship, sex is a metaphor for other aspects of the relationship. My feeling is there are deeper issues the two of you aren't dealing with, that have nothing directly to do with sex. Flush out and work on those issues and you'll either solve the sexual problem, or you'll realize the relationship's problems can't be solved and you'll move on.
A lot of guys make the mistake on focusing on the sexual aspect of a relationship problem. Sex is the branch, the deeper stuff is the root. Deal with the other stuff first. If you don't know where to start, see a relationship counselor. That's about all I can tell you.