Popularity of Male "Escort" Services.

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  1. 4x4

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    In the country where I live, I have started to see advertising for mail escorts with additional benefits such as tall, handsome, "well endowed" etc, not very discreet. Their adds are specifically heterosexual or in some cases for couples. The gay ads have existed for several years but this is new. Is this becoming more common in the more "developed" countries as in GB? I would have to assume that there is a market which does surprise me a bit. I have a hard time visualizing this as being true, with so many men who would be happy to perform the services that they might want free.

    I would really like women to share their points of view on this. What services do they really offer in addition to sex?

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    seems to be oriented towards gay male escort services around here (north texas).

    also offering massage services (for women, by men) on the back page of the local free newspaper appears to be very popular.

    i have never used anything like this so i don't even know what goes on with these type things.
     
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    In my area we have all sorts of escorts and prostitutes.

    I do not hire them but I have friends who at one time did want to hire a protitute/hustler/whore and they would show me the ads in the city paper. Also you can easily find them online on lots of sites.

    One friend thought that the female Transsexual prostitutes were Bio women and that the "TS" in the ad stood for LOL "To Service"!

    I know that not all strippers are prostitutes either but at the few strip clubs I've gone to with friends where there were female strippers some were into doing sex for pay and some were not. I know this since my friend wanted to pay for sex with one when she offered but that did not happen.

    Male/female/Transsexual (they are mostly pre op Transwomen, I'm sure FTM are out there doing sex for pay too though), you can hire a bio female Dominatrix, hire a Pre or Post Op female Transsexual Dominatrix, I'm sure there are male Dominants for hire, all sorts of rent boys offering "massage", your run of the mill street whores, and you can basically find whatever or whoever you want in a city paper or on Craigslist or other sites. I'm sure that there are bisexual and lesbian prostitutes too, and I've heard of male/female couples who have an open relationship where the man is straight and the woman is bisexual hiring a female prostitute for the woman.

    In Las Vegas they have legalized prostitution and brothels with men and women.

    Which country do you live in?
     
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    A small city in eastern central Mexico.

    The services offered are very specifically for women and/or couples. It still seems strange to me.
     
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    whatever.. maybe there a lot of rich old women in those areas.

    Ugly pays.

    Or:

    Beauty = plain + $
    Beauty = ugly + $$$
     
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    Prostitution has been legal in New Zealand for some years now which seems to have made things better and safer for everyone concerned. Previously it was legal for one party to ask for it, usually men, but not for the other to offer it, usually women - a Victorian-era hipocracy. So, yeah. Equal opportunities...
     
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    Is this even a women's issue? Sure am reading a lot of female opinion in this thread.
     
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    Not many women responding, but it is a question directed at women. For guys getting female escorts/prostitutes, it's usually just sex because that's what men usually focus on: the physical act of intercourse.

    For women, emotions and romantic love play a much larger role (generally), so male escorts for a one-night fling doesn't seem to meet their needs as well.
     
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    Just to let you know your avatar cracked me up
     
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    At least that is what most males think or want to think :wink: Of course if we take into consideration what men though about women and sex in addition to what was socially acceptable even 50 years ago, it was very, very different from today. That is the reason for the question based on the escort service advertising specifically (for women only) that surprised me. my thoughts parallel your last paragraph, but now the question could be, "Is this still true?"

    Thanks
     
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    Wich city in wich state? , where i live (mexico as well, guanjuato state) the ads section in the sunday newspaper is filled with tons of ads of escorts, its not something rare to see anymore
     
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    No, It's more basic than that. We just don't have to pay. Period.
     
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    The cynical Pitbull philosopher poet is here today



    Prostitute, Lover, Husband or Wife
    One night stand, Lover for Life
    All pay the price each and every day
    All pay the price in a different way

     
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    Note to "greatdickismydrug"

    I'm available for you on lay-away. :wink:
     
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    or blow jobs. apparently it's common for women in established relationships to stop giving them after a time. or well, it seems to be common judging from the people i've talked to about the matter. it's not something i agree with.


    this is a good/interesting point. i had a friend ask me recently, a male friend, if i would pay to see a guy jack off on cam. i said no, not because i don't like seeing that kinda thing but why pay when you get so many offers for free (if you're in the market for that kinda thing i mean)?
     
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    Lol, that's probably true. Too many desparate guys out there make it hard for the escorts to make any $$. I think for most guys, you can't just go up to them and ask for it. I wouldn't do it for most women I meet. Then again, paying me generally doesn't help either unless I'm really in need of cash.
     
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    You are wrong. You can go up and just ask for it with most men.
    Actually it works quite well.
     
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    Really? I'll have to try that sometime! :smile:
     
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    dude, i dunno what ads u saw or where u saw them, but nobody (at least in the states) knows what the hell you're talking about.
    i can't really speak for places i haven't been... maybe its different in other places... but that would never happen in america.
    shit, there are over 5,000 gentlemen's clubs in the states where women dance naked for money. there are currently less than 20 clubs where men dance naked for money nightly for females. why is this? because women don't spend money on sex. therefor, women sure as hell wouldn't spend enough money on sex escorts... sexcorts? anybody? no? k nvm (which is what you are saying the ads implied) to keep a business afloat.
     
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    I dunno about paying but I could at least get you to spring for dinner
     
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