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guys I am sooo curious about the idea of watching porn with your partner.

I do watch porn with my husband and it turns me on and we have mind blowing sex everyday. He is a great man with a big heart and please me in a way that I cant even imagine of pleasing my self to be neither with any other compared to be, When um single I was searching for all the free time to watch porn and masturbate any time wot so ever, but now though I find time I feel like its so not complete without him. :frown1:

But with him not the same. Like when he is licking me or doing any i really concentrate on that tempting feeling he gives me, i dont watch porn while hes doing it on me, i really cant if um goin to do so um destroying the feeling. so I just close my eyes and enjoy it or I watch the way he does it to me, cuz seeing him doing that blow me out. But when um giving him a blow job either a hand job he watches porn while having it most of the time. He says its soo good he says its mind blowing and so on and some times he cum while on blow jobs as well and he loves it the most.

I really dont get the logic though. Is he really satisfied? is he really enjoying wot hes feeling? Am I doing something wrong in a way? Is that he imagines him self in the situation which shows in porn and is that the excitement helps him take to that orgasm? or is that I am not doing a good job at all???

Idk guys this keeps on worrying me. Please give me ur honest opinions. I really want to please him in a way that he never gets pleased by nun other...
 

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This is probably not the place to go for this: Most of the people here will tell you its normal and everyone does it. I'd read some of the things that people are saying on
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Porn is an addictive behavior just like drinking or drugs, one that can funnel attention away from more important things in life. Just like its easier to have fun when drinking or doing drugs, it might be easier to get off when watching porn, but easier is not always best. I wouldn't worry so much about you being able to please him, some people have great women, who try hard to please them, yet they still want more more more. I think you are right to be concerned, good sex between you two is one of the most important parts of your marriage, and if he is directing his sexual attention onto other people, he is stealing it from you.
That's what it means to be married, to be able to restrain some of your urges so that you have everything left for your spouse. People who always want more and more pleasure end up burning out, while people who control themselves are the ones who stay happy for a long time. PM me if you ever wanna talk about this...
 

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He has to watch video of other people having sex, while he's actually having sex, in order to get off??? Wtf?
The dude has issues....
Is he not turned on by your look? Is he so desensitized that he needs it?
Or is he not actually tuned in to the moment? Can/ have you two had sex without the porn? If so, how was it in comparison?