Porn as an undesirable addiction

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  1. hotcakes22

    hotcakes22 New Member

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    Wasn't sure which forum to post this in, but I'm just wondering if anyone here finds his or her porn-viewing to be an undesirable addiction or habit. (not necessarily because of some moral reason) Perhaps it interferes with your relationships or perhaps you just find it unhealthy somehow...?
     
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    Not really, an easy way to bust a nut. Something that can destract you from real life to relax :smile:
     
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    It is like anything. Too much of anything is bad. Moderation is the key. Especailly if you are in a relationship.

    One thing it can do is to desensitize you to sex. I mean, if you already got off looking at porn, you may not be in the mood when it comes to your partner.

    Since porn is fantasy, fantasy is always better than reality. Thats what makes them fantasies.

    It is an addiction when you no longer want to interact with reality and spend so much time on it, that it effects your life negativley. When you use it as a substitute for social interaction, then it is bad. But you could say that about anything, not just porn.
     
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    Or distract you from enjoying what is real in your life.

    Many reasons to dislike certain forms of porn, and many reasons to dislike from those people who can't pull away from it.


    I look, but often I think in various kinds of porn, there's too much information. Probably disrupts my synesthesia and I smell/touch/see/taste things.

    I love erotic over hardcore. My imagination works overtime.
     
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    It is quite desirable.

    But from time to time I ask myself if it would be better for me to work my imagination rather than just watch porn.
     
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    I tend to place this site in the porn category. Does it make us form unrealistic expectations? Yes in my view. Would I date a man I knew to use this site or others (and no offense here) and posting nude photos to a degree of concern? No is the short answer. The Long answer is: sure I would go out for a while. I'd deal with it, perhaps even only be with him for his large cock (haha), then slowly I would get sick of it and go date an average sized guy who I don't have to worry about whoring on the net all nite;-). Nevermind the cocksize. lol This really is Sugarlicious. lol.
     
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    the older i get the younger the models seem.
     
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    I tend to think I'd be more productive, if I watched less porn!
     
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    I think if I waas less productive I could watch more porn
     
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    Interesting, I never thought of this site in that way. Maybe it is because I am straight and dont get off on the pictures. There are certain sections I rarley visit if at all, like the Show Off section, Large Penis Personal Ads, and the Webcams/ cyber connection section.
     
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