Porn Gives Men Unrealistic Expectations On Their Cock Size And How To Perform In Bed

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Do you think porn usually giving men unrealistic expectations on their cock size , even if their average or above average , porn still makes them feel insecure and gives that an unrealistic body image that thats how all men are or should be. Same goes for performance in bed , they will get disappointed each time they have sex if they did not perform as good as the men that perform in porn.
 

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Do you think porn usually giving men unrealistic expectations on their cock size , even if their average or above average , porn still makes them feel insecure and gives that an unrealistic body image that thats how all men are or should be. Same goes for performance in bed , they will get disappointed each time they have sex if they did not perform as good as the men that perform in porn.

I think it can, maybe even more so now than in the past as porn is so readily available. I mean even the “amateur” stuff that is meant to be real guys is some what unrealistic. If people try to compare porn to real life then they are going to disappoint themselves.
 

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Men should watch a lot of 'behind the scenes' or 'making of' porn videos. In professional porn, they constantly are stopping for lighting and positions and stuff like that. They don't fuck for an hour straight...some scenes take hours to create but the sex is only a few minutes. Not to mention the guys don't stay hard and there is not always attraction or chemistry between the actors. It is amazing how the girls can sound like they are into it when it is all fake. That is like comparing yourself to an action hero like Spiderman or Ironman.. Total fiction.
 

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Do you think porn usually giving men unrealistic expectations on their cock size , even if their average or above average , porn still makes them feel insecure and gives that an unrealistic body image that thats how all men are or should be. Same goes for performance in bed , they will get disappointed each time they have sex if they did not perform as good as the men that perform in porn.
Completely.

Porn is not the same as sex. Never confuse the two.
 
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porn is not real life. Porn is extreme entertainment. If you can think it they can put it on film and make it realistic. We all have our fantasies and we all should know what is real and what isn't. Enjoy porn for what it is our crazy extreme ideas put on film.
 

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I mostly watch porn labeled "amateur" or "homemade". That way, it seems that most of the "performers" are real, normal people and not actors or actresses. For me, that type of porn is more relatable. Do I like seeing good looking people? Sure, but "perfect" bodies don't exist for most of us. Most of us have skin moles, scars, dimples in places where they shouldn't be, a little too much weight, etc.

Watching amateur porn, it seems that most of the men have average cocks. So, no, as an average guy myself, I don't feel intimidated nor envious.

In the words of Popeye, "I y'am what I y'am".
 

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When younger, I thought I was average or smaller than average because the only naked men I've ever seen are in porn. It wasn't until I had some real life experience (starting in my 20s) that I became more confident in my size, performance, etc.
 
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I mostly watch porn labeled "amateur" or "homemade". That way, it seems that most of the "performers" are real, normal people and not actors or actresses. For me, that type of porn is more relatable. Do I like seeing good looking people? Sure, but "perfect" bodies don't exist for most of us. Most of us have skin moles, scars, dimples in places where they shouldn't be, a little too much weight, etc.

Watching amateur porn, it seems that most of the men have average cocks. So, no, as an average guy myself, I don't feel intimidated nor envious.

In the words of Popeye, "I y'am what I y'am".


When I watch amateur Brazilian or amateur ebony porn their dcks are bigger than main stream porn
 

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I dunno..does watching Lebron and the Lakers in my free time put unrealistic expectations upon my abilities during my neighborhood pickup game?
I think the individuals who base their expectations for sexual activity upon porn have something more wrong with their thought process, then porn actively doing anything to deceive.
I also to think these individuals have a very narrow view of all of what porn has to offer, and are possibly letting their biases and preferences stand in the way of more realistic material.
 
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What I mean is that I've read a bit about what doing porn is like and it doesn't sound appealing to me at all.
Obviously, the actuality is largely a grim sausage factory but every now and then there's something approaching good, honest art. It does happen.

I know I'm not helping the argument but I can think of a few occasions where it's been, "Oh! This is like porn only I'm in it." ;)
 
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I absolutely think it gives men an unrealistic concept of size and performance. Between porn angles and editing, many of the cocks in porn look bigger than they actually are. Even though many performers deny it I would think there are some performance blue pills being used.
Like many others have said. Porn is an illusion and nothing to gauge yourself against.
Here is the bottom line. Improve what you can improve and accept the rest. Anyone can improve their sexual abilities but your dick is your dick for the most and nothing is more destructive than getting obsessed with your size. I spent years battling that when I didn’t need to.
Unless you’re with a size queen it really doesn’t matter. There are plenty of monster dicked men that suck in bed. Or so I have heard.
 
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