Porn is becoming a problem.

[SirConcis]

Unless your goal is to make babies, sexual activities is for FUN. ENJOYMENT, PLEASURE.

If you happen to get more fun, enjoyment, pleasure doing sex while watching porn, then so be it. Enjoy it. Perhaps it is just a phase and you'll move out of it and find something else.

 

[mgill1974]

I'm single and love porn, in fact I'd actually rather put on some hot porn and jerk a huge load than be bothered with human interaction lol. maybe just a phase hopefully

 

[SirConcis]

Masturbation is not a sin. Parents tell you it is bad because they know that when you tell a kid not to do something, he will do it, and when he known it is "bad", it feels even better to do it

 

[uboat]

so i have one of my fuck buddies coming over tonight. Im gonna fuck her. But here in lies the problem. After i fuck, i want to bust another nut, but the only problem is that im too lazy to fuck again and her pussy isn't tight enough for me to bust again (my dick has been desensitized from all the hard beating ove the years). Damn. I like having fuck buddies, but they are starting too loose their flavor. I have another fuck buddy coming over on wed/thursday night but all i can think about is beating off. But I haven't in a few days. There is one girl that im kinda into. She is a stripper, but im not sure she is feeling me. Im going to try to stay disciplined and just stick to the fuck buddies and leave the porn alone.

 

[D_Jimmy Jammer]

Unless your goal is to make babies, sexual activities is for FUN. ENJOYMENT, PLEASURE.

You're right. But it can also go very 'wrong'.
Addiction's not pleasurable.
Far from it.

 

[uboat]

You're right. But it can also go very 'wrong'.
Addiction's not pleasurable.
Far from it.

i concur.

 

[Valentine123]

I think you might want to change your approach to sex, and not take it as a purely physical need (like food), but an element of a relationship, and LOVE! Give yourself a chance to fall in love. My BF watches porn from time to time, too, but most of the time he really doesn't need to - I make sure he does not

 

[uboat]

I think you might want to change your approach to sex, and not take it as a purely physical need (like food), but an element of a relationship, and LOVE! Give yourself a chance to fall in love. My BF watches porn from time to time, too, but most of the time he really doesn't need to - I make sure he does not

I totally get what you are saying, but honestly, i DON'T want to fall in love with any of my fuck buddies. I just kinda fell for one not too long ago and now im kicking myself for getting too close to her. Im getting kinda scared of relationships bc in my head, i think if i find another girl i like, ill marry her. But i don't want to get married. Damn, maybe im just lonely... who knows.

 

[bambulance]

Hmmm I guess I'm one of the lucky ones that can do the porn thing in moderation...

 

[B_spotted_duck]

If I were you I'd try therapy. Seriously-- saying things like you wish you could un-see the porn you've seen suggests to me that this entire pattern of sexual behavior is really making you unhappy, and you would do well to find a guide to help you untangle what you're dealing with. No shame in sorting out your shit-- the only shame is in not sorting out your shit.

 

[Riven650]

Some of us have an addictive personality and therapy/counselling can help with that, but some of us simply have too much testosterone for our own good. Doctors could help with that because there are several different well tried drugs that lower your testosterone levels. However, they go under the label 'chemical castration' and there's such a huge taboo surrounding the concept of castration that even doctors go all coy and embarrassed at the thought of it. I think it's high time that the medical profession embraced the problem and realised that these drugs could be a great help to men who's sex drives are ruining their marriages/lives.

 

[uboat]

well...i had sex with my fuck buddy and it was good. I felt like i let go of alot of sexual frustration. The problem i face is in the next few days when the frustration starts to build back up from not having sex/masturbating. Its usually at this time that i want to look at porn and beat my meat. I have another fuck buddy i can call, but im not feeling her b/c her pussy smells bad.