Porn is ruining men

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Sure, you can make the argument that porn is immoral, particularly how *most* of it objectifies women. And that it does better than anything. Because of men's superiority in society, they can never be objectified to the same degree. On these very grounds, I think gay porn is a bit moral than straight porn for this very reason (another reason why some women like gay porn more than straight porn, despite their attraction to the male physique).

Porn can leave men with illusions, and it can make them desensitized to varying degrees. But be mindful when watching porn and do it in moderation. That way you'll avoid those problems. However, this notion isn't a strong argument against porn, imho. It's like eating: if you overeat, you'll get fat and ugly.
 
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My point about porn is that it shouldn't be used to mold one's sexual ideals. And it shouldn't be used as an educational tool about how to please women - straight porn, for the most part, is produced for men. Taking a load in the face, choking & gagging on a dick is usually not in a woman's top ten 'please me' techniques. It might be, but not usually.

And if porn is used as a substitute for a human being, then it can be a problem. If you no longer seek out people because you have porn? You might have a problem.

I mean, I watch porn, I like different kinds of porn. I just worry if a guy needs me to look like, act like or needs the porn to get off because I'm not porny enough.
 
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And if porn is used as a substitute for a human being, then it can be a problem. If you no longer seek out people because you have porn? You might have a problem.

Porn is easy. People are not. It's really that simple.
 

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lets be honest, if men didnt had any porn (straight in this case) most of them wouldnt know how to please a female, some learnt tecnics thanks to porn scenes.

I couldn't say whether most men learn how to please women by viewing porn (although the reverse could be true as well).

I have often wondered why, though, we are schooled in how to add, subtract, speak, spell, drive, etc, but not really in how to give sexual pleasure.
 

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I couldn't say whether most men learn how to please women by viewing porn (although the reverse could be true as well).

I have often wondered why, though, we are schooled in how to add, subtract, speak, spell, drive, etc, but not really in how to give sexual pleasure.

because when you go to a supermarket you will find violence being sold more easily through in movies and videogames than sex which most of the times are banned or hidden from children, so theres something wrong with humankind.
 

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I don't know of any women who recommend guys watch porn for tips :eek: If anything attempting to do what you see in porn will get her legs crossed and not open.

womans usually dont like to recommend and they prefer a guy who knows about it without giving him any tips....

if you are straight you should know them more than me lol
 

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because when you go to a supermarket you will find violence being sold more easily through in movies and videogames than sex which most of the times are banned or hidden from children, so theres something wrong with humankind.

Same here. When I pass by those racks of videos at a market I am almost always astonished at how many of them feature angry looking actors/actresses brandishing weapons. Sometimes more than half the videos for sale or rental qualify as such.
 

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And if porn is used as a substitute for a human being, then it can be a problem. If you no longer seek out people because you have porn? You might have a problem.

I mean, I watch porn, I like different kinds of porn. I just worry if a guy needs me to look like, act like or needs the porn to get off because I'm not porny enough.

Do you think that men may also worry that women may be similarly ruined for them by the ability of batteries and lifesive twelve inch dildos?
 

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Do you think that men may also worry that women may be similarly ruined for them by the ability of batteries and lifesive twelve inch dildos?

Lifesize 12-inch dildos? Um, that's not lifesize in my experience, but ok. I don't necessarily know what men worry about. Apparently men don't need a women's opinion to worry about the size of their penis. I've seen that quite clearly on this website.

Personally though, I would worry about a woman who preferred dildos or vibrators to human beings.
 

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Lifesize 12-inch dildos? Um, that's not lifesize in my experience, but ok. I don't necessarily know what men worry about. Apparently men don't need a women's opinion to worry about the size of their penis. I've seen that quite clearly on this website.

Personally though, I would worry about a woman who preferred dildos or vibrators to human beings.


They don't talk, leave the toilet seat up, take your kitchen utensils out to the shed never to be seen again, snore.....:tongue::wink:

What's not to love about that?
 

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until women start making porn where sex toys are degraded, abused and humiliated... where such mistreatment is sold as a standard/expected/demanded norm.... men don't have the same flavor of fret happening.

side note: i don't know many women who use 12" dildos. :smile:

eta: porn isn't ruining men. entitlement is ruining people.
 
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until women start making porn where sex toys are degraded, abused and humiliated... where such mistreatment is sold as a standard/expected/demanded norm.... men don't have the same flavor of fret happening.

side note: i don't know many women who use 12" dildos. :smile:

eta: porn isn't ruining men. entitlement is ruining people.
emphasis mine.

Truth.
 

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Well, as irritating as people are - I still choose them over appliances most days! :biggrin: Although, I'm still a little pissed over my good spatula being used to clean the guinea pig cage....:frown: