Porn star outed at his Christian college

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Well, to be honest....not everyone expects these guys to have GINORMOUS dicks flopping in every which way! it's nice to see someone who isn't so well endowed - it makes these porn actors more human. Variety is the spice of life!
 

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If you actually read his own words on the matter:

1 - He attended the school because he was pressured into it by his family. He never agreed with the moralistic code of the place. He does, however, appreciate the educational standard of the school.

2 - He has received nothing but hatred and bile from the staff and students there in the wake of this. Vicious emails and phone messages. Food thrown at him in the dining hall. All this from a "Christian" school.

3 - He is refusing to go quietly. He went right back in there with a lawyer and got a compromise which is extremely positive for him - he gets to keep his degree after all, just not atend the graduation ceremony.

4 - The whole thing involved him being forced to come out to his parents under extremely embarrassing circumstances.

5 - He is moving to NYC to pursue acting and modeling, and is not giving up the porn - in fact he'll be filming his first DVD soon.

All that into consideration, I think he deserves our support and admiration, not bitter bitchy comments that are no better than the "Christians" who threw hinm out.
Thanks for pointing out all this. And good for him, he's doing what he wants to do with his life.
 

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The moral of the story is when you put yourself into a situation with restrictive rules expect consequences when you break them.

For this particular situation I don't hold it against him because most of us have made self-defeating choices trying to please our families. And I'm glad he worked out an agreement that turned out pretty well for him.

Schools, businesses, clubs, etc. have the right to come up with whatever rules they want. And anybody who doesn't want to follow those rules doesn't have to involve themselves with them. But I don't think those institutions should get any sort of public funding since they don't make themselves available to all of the public.
 
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Lucky for him, the whole school is gonna want to fuck him bottom now.
 

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I wish him the best in life. It has to got to be rough to be 1. kicked out of school and 2. EVERYONE knows---it's on the news, online, it's going to be urban legend and his family.

People getting paid for sexual acts while in school isn't new right folks?
 

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I went to a Jesuit University. There was gay sex and cocaine everywhere. I didn't see anyone get punished for it.
 

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With a huge number of Catholic's priest that are gay, you think they would lose enrollment if they enforce the gay-ban rules?

I don't know what religion this school represent, but just saying even my church I can spot them a mile away. I think there is something to Jesus last command to love one another, that attracts those that need love, and hoping at least there that someone actually follows Jesus tenets, and not just the old testament!

I don't find it odd that this porn star chose this school, as his chances were pretty good of not being found out. For the reason as not admitting that they saw his performance, and that those are most likely people who would not venture there in the first place. He did manage to get a degree, by hiding long enough to get what he wanted. His plan was daring but successful, and I suspect he had the upper hand with his lawyers finagling an agreement.
 

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I attended a Christian University. I was hit on constantly there by two different professors. One of these men surprisingly became a good friend after I graduated and he tragically died of complications from HIV in 2005.

There are incredible levels of hypocracy at the institutions of higher learning in that they will discriminate on incredible levels on some things and literally pay zero attention to others.

One of the terrorists responsible for the 911 tragedy was a full time student at a Baptist College in the South. He was Muslim and followed all Muslim guidelines in his lifestyle. While there, he was meeting with others sharing his faith and it is now proven that this was where some of the beginnings of his radical thinking started.

I attended the University I did, simply because it was an excellent school. I did not live on campus and as a result my private life remained just that and it was the way I wanted it.

There are many questions to me in this and I would wonder why he would not on his own convictions choose a different University to attend. Usually admittance standards at these private schools are far more stringent than those coming under the "we serve all" environments.

What bothers me most is that in spite of the headlines this fellow made, we still have young guys on this board who ask our advice about doing porn as if they never read or hear of the experiences of those who have already done it.

I have absolutely nothing against porn, I view it "when necessary" but, I would personally not consider doing it only because it can come back and slap you in the face thirty years after the fact.

All in all I wish him well. There will be problems because there is little doubt that the moral issues will be part of a college record. Those issues can prevent him from being insurable because of a "high risk" lifestyle even if he does nothing wrong.

It is sad and I not only wish him well, I wish him great success in his future endeavors.
 

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Makes me wonder what happened to the fellow student who pointed him out. What was he doing looking at porn, if he's at the same school.

That thought came to me also, how is it that he recognized him from gay porn, maybe it's the evangelical Christian axiom that you have to know the sin so you can recognize it?

I've also always been curious as to why the "Christians" are so anti-gay, since neither almighty God (10 Commandments) or Jesus ever mentioned homosexuality as a sin? Two types of heterosexual sin are mentioned, adultry and fornication. Do you suppose they were too embarrassed to bring it up?

What our the standards for a Christian college? We see even here the news that Oral Roberts' son was discovered embezeling money, Jim Bakker was caught stealing, Jimmy Swaggart was caught multiple times with whores?

I'm glad here you receive uni free as part of your education from the government. All you have to do is keep your grades up, not your dick!