So recently I've been doing some soul searching...
Well not really, but I needed to start by saying something slightly pretentious and insightful. I've been thinking about my porn-consumption and I noticed that I'm kind of into porn where there is a story.
Sure, two, three, fifty-five people going at it, slapping body parts together and letting everything flow, dribble and spray is fun and gets the blood pumping, but I've noticed that sometimes I just need something extra added to my porn. The stuff that really gets me hot and bothered is just a bit more than merely people having sex.
So thinking about my own habits I noticed that the porn that really does it for me, is the kind where there is a story locked in from the beginning.
Example:
Two people are having sex, in the scene there is nothing about these two people that indicates they have a relationship going on. It's literally 2 strangers having sex. It's fine, it does what it needs to do, but am I really stimulated?
Same people are having sex, but in this case they are described as two brothers having sex. The exact same scene plays out, but there is an added layer of story there. It's taboo, they're brothers, without stating it, there is a whole history there and a possible future. Context to the same scene adds to its erotic nature.
Same scene, but instead of two brothers, they're two straight friends, five minute intro added, in which we learn that they're both married, but haven't seen their wives in a while and they're drunk and talking about sex, one of them dares the other to show his dick in order to compare and see who is the biggest and manliest. The rest of the scene just plays out like in the original scenario... and all of a sudden I'm way more into it than expected.
Am I alone in that? I know that in general men don't really care about story and context, because porn is porn and sex is sex, so it's two people getting it on, for what should be a 10 minute wank-break, everything else gets skipped.
To me that's good porn... the stuff where you go from two strangers in a well-lit room doing nasty stuff, to telling a story where two people are getting it on.
Well not really, but I needed to start by saying something slightly pretentious and insightful. I've been thinking about my porn-consumption and I noticed that I'm kind of into porn where there is a story.
Sure, two, three, fifty-five people going at it, slapping body parts together and letting everything flow, dribble and spray is fun and gets the blood pumping, but I've noticed that sometimes I just need something extra added to my porn. The stuff that really gets me hot and bothered is just a bit more than merely people having sex.
So thinking about my own habits I noticed that the porn that really does it for me, is the kind where there is a story locked in from the beginning.
Example:
Two people are having sex, in the scene there is nothing about these two people that indicates they have a relationship going on. It's literally 2 strangers having sex. It's fine, it does what it needs to do, but am I really stimulated?
Same people are having sex, but in this case they are described as two brothers having sex. The exact same scene plays out, but there is an added layer of story there. It's taboo, they're brothers, without stating it, there is a whole history there and a possible future. Context to the same scene adds to its erotic nature.
Same scene, but instead of two brothers, they're two straight friends, five minute intro added, in which we learn that they're both married, but haven't seen their wives in a while and they're drunk and talking about sex, one of them dares the other to show his dick in order to compare and see who is the biggest and manliest. The rest of the scene just plays out like in the original scenario... and all of a sudden I'm way more into it than expected.
Am I alone in that? I know that in general men don't really care about story and context, because porn is porn and sex is sex, so it's two people getting it on, for what should be a 10 minute wank-break, everything else gets skipped.
To me that's good porn... the stuff where you go from two strangers in a well-lit room doing nasty stuff, to telling a story where two people are getting it on.