Subscribed to his email list, apparently, though I can't remember doing so. Think I might have signed up on his website to get one of his videos back in the day. The website itself doesn't seem to be live anymore, though. Here's the letter:
Hey there!
So, I recently turned 39... and I just came out of a
WILD midlife crisis:
- Smoking weed all day, every day? Check.
- Dozens and dozens of one-night stands? Check.
- Hitting “Snooze” on life’s responsibilities? Check.
- …not emailing you an update for a year? Check. (Sorry!)
I’ll be honest, it started out
AWESOME...
(I moved back to Manila to be a Tinder fiend for a few weeks)
But around month 8 — yes,
EIGHT — it was really just an empty routine:
Wake up groggy -> Smoke -> Text girls -> Go on a date or two -> Repeat.
(And thanks to the guys who continued to join my online course, 6 Step Squirting, so I could smoke my life away lol)
So what finally kicked me out of it?
Enter my new relationship!
Yup, after 6 years flying solo, I finally have a girlfriend…
(And as corny as it sounds, I realized I wanted to hang out with her more than I wanted to bang another random chick. So three months ago I decided, screw it, let me try one of these relationship things again…)
And with gfs come puppies, so here’s a story about a little 8-week-old puppy and the lesson it taught me about relationships:
This little doggo was our “starter puppy”… We were taking care of him for a friend for 10 days, and every night, he just couldn't stop
whining for attention…
My girlfriend would wake up every hour or two to give him a cuddle and put him back to sleep… that was HER solution.
MY solution? I figured out that he just wanted to be able to see us at night. So I built a little ramp onto a couch near the bed where he slept soundly without a peep.
Problem solved.
And it's a lesson I’m relearning about relationships:
Guys, when something’s not right, it’s on us to dig in and fix it.
Our girls want a leader who doesn’t just reactively rush in with emotion (that’s their move)… they want us to balance them out with cold, hard analysis and proactivity.
Which brings me to this awesome email I just got from Peter:
“Your course helped me regain my confidence and rekindle the passion in my relationship. It's like I was stuck in a rut and your advice helped me turn things around.”
(Thanks Peter, you put in the work so congrats!)
So if you have a nagging suspicion that your relationship or sex life needs a “fix”, remember, don’t “rush in with emotion”… the right move is to break it down and figure out a long-term solution.
Because whether you decide to join the men using 6 Step Squirting to earn more respect from their girls, or something completely different,
the fix is ultimately on us!
And getting back to my midlife crisis… now that I’m on the other side of it, I've got big plans in store:
By popular demand, I’ll be
back on tour and releasing new videos by the end of this year! So stay tuned for more tips, tricks, and stories to help you keep your love life fresh and exciting.
(And I’ll write about how I’m going to balance this new relationship with meeting gals on tour...)
In the meantime, I hope my midlife crisis – and the lesson I learned from that puppy – inspires you to
invest in your own relationships and seek deeper satisfaction.
Take care and keep the spark alive,
-Brian 'Hunk Hands' Crabtree