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I recently just got a minor in possession for drinking a damn beer at my schools tailgate recently. I have absolutely no money to pay the fine and don't currently have job. I saw an ad on craigslist that pays $500 for a nude photo shoot. I have no idea how legitimate this is or where the pictures go, but I am almost ready do do this for the money alone. I am fairly well endowed, but have always been a little bit timid about showing it off. I also think this could be my opportunity to cut loose and do something crazy. Does this seem sketchy? Has anyone else done or heard of something like this? What should i do?
 

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damn dude, nice cock. id say its one of the nicest on here. im sure you could make a ton modeling that cock. no doubt. but im not sure how legitimate the craigs deal is. sounds sketchy. PM me if u wanna chat, im in NY. maybe i can help ya out bro.
 

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Hello,

You are only 19! I'm not so sure at your age.

I'm 29 and have seriously considered modeling my cock for $$$$. The main differences between you and me are: I am 10 years older than you, and I'm packing a lot more downstairs than you. :biggrin1: Just jokes, bud!

When you are older (there are exception as we all well know), you tend to think more in terms of potential consequences. In other words, you may have a better sense of what you are doing when you are a bit older. But, I'd bit a more reluctant, considering the fact that you are barely an adult.

At any rate, the decision is yours to make. Advice (should you go through with it): Be cautious for whom you model. You do want the money, right? Also, the nude photos of you could be end up anywhere and in anyone's hands.

Take care
 

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If you have absolutely no other choice, it beats prostitution. However, I would insiste that you were allowed to keep your face covered--that way, it will be less likely to come back and bit you in the future--no face, you have plausiable deniability, except to those that know your cock and body well. Just my thoughts.
 

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If you have absolutely no other choice, it beats prostitution. However, I would insiste that you were allowed to keep your face covered--that way, it will be less likely to come back and bit you in the future--no face, you have plausiable deniability, except to those that know your cock and body well. Just my thoughts.

Check local laws first: It may actually be considered prostitution.
 

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Loving your pics mate - you should go for it :smile:

Just be careful though, especially with you being straight - make sure it's totally legit and only do what you're comfortable with.
 

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I recently just got a minor in possession for drinking a damn beer at my schools tailgate recently. I have absolutely no money to pay the fine and don't currently have job. I saw an ad on craigslist that pays $500 for a nude photo shoot. I have no idea how legitimate this is or where the pictures go, but I am almost ready do do this for the money alone. I am fairly well endowed, but have always been a little bit timid about showing it off. I also think this could be my opportunity to cut loose and do something crazy. Does this seem sketchy? Has anyone else done or heard of something like this? What should i do?

19 year old gets busted for drinking a beer? That's normal.

Oh well. I'm sure you don't need to go off having some old perv taking pictures of your cock; You could move onto something great and have those pics back to bite you on the ass.

Besides, what kind of a person doesn't have a job t 19?

Get a legit job and dont go pulling your cock out for some dude you don't know.
Get a job, pay the fine, forget the porn, and move on with your life.

Think of it this way:

You pull your cock out and the dude starts shooting pics, after snapping a few off two of his friends come out and grab you. After raping and beating you until you're low on blood and unconscious they castrate you and leave you in a ditch.

Yes, this stuff does happen.
 
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I've been in a similar position. I was 18 and met with a guy who took pictures of me, fully nude, face and all, and fully erect. I am now in my early 30s, and I cringe when I think of those photos. I wasn't doing anything sexual per se, aside from standing there with a boner, but I just don't like the position I was in then. I was naive and dumb. I later learned that this particular photographer targeted young males, known in the gay male photography genre as "twinks." So, I guess I was an unaware twink.

The choice is yours, but if you decide to go through with it, make sure to meet the guy in a public place first, like a Starbucks or something, somewhere in the public. Don't let yourself be alone with someone you don't know and who is going to get you naked and vulnerable. If, while in public with this guy, you don't feel comfortable, go no further.

That ticket is temporary. You will pay it off somehow and it will be gone. Nude pictures of you can last forever. Don't do what I did; don't put yourself in a position where you will not be in total control and may later regret what you did. And when I look back, that's all I really regret: that I wasn't really in control.

The beauty of youth is that you are, well, beautiful. The danger of youth is that you are often wanting the approval of people, and this will lead you to do things you will regret a decade down the line.

With me, with the career I've chosen, I don't think my photos will come back to haunt me. First of all, I never signed a release, so if they get published I can sue. Thankfully, I'm not as hung as you, bro, nothing so spectacular.

Perhaps the main point is this: in this sexually pent-up society, posing nude can have negative consequences for one's future. You don't want to make such a potentially risky decision while in a place of insecurity, which it appears you are. If you need money, I'm sure there are other wasys to get it, ways you won't regret 10 years from now. Working at McDonalds ain't great, but ten years from now it is not a potential source of embarrassment for you.
 

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Hi mate,
Most of what I would say has been said already. However I will repeat, don't do it. I was in the same position as Ganymede. However the person who took the photo's tried to bribe me for sex and when I wouldn't participate sent the photo's to my mum. I am a bit older now, but once bitten twice shy. I don't put photo's on here or any other sites because I feel a little bitter from the past. I have been thinking of changing that. But not my face. Don't let anyone film your face and remember the preditors are very clever. Don't think about right or wrong, think with the outcome in mind and know you are being used.

Chris
 

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There is nothing wrong with prostitution, my dear. All the best people do it. Just be safe. With a cock like that you could make quite a pretty penny!

Always,
Mrs. Candy
xx

The Perfect Phallus


I am sorry.. did you say " There is NOTHING wrong with Prostitution??"

You did,... wow.:eek: There is alot of things wrong with being a whore.

Regargless of that point, Mustang, if you decide to do the picture thing, perhaps get them to not take pics of your face. That way, it is just professional pics of your dick and torso.
 

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Go apply everywhere you can. McDonald's, the grocery store, walmart. Those photos could be around for the rest of your life and come back to haunt you. Peeps have had their careers ruined just because the little photos popped up 25 years later.
 

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Go apply everywhere you can. McDonald's, the grocery store, walmart. Those photos could be around for the rest of your life and come back to haunt you. Peeps have had their careers ruined just because the little photos popped up 25 years later.

Good answer! I told him the same thing myself. Work it out with the courts! They will take payments. What he wants to do is very bad form! He could take care of this in a few months and be done with it. The alternative could last a lifetime.
 

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Unless under extreme and dire circumstances, there is always a safer and more logical way to earn money than by selling yourself. Weigh the consequences of what you are willing to live with and willing to do. Ganymede made some excellent points.

I can't warn against it, since the closest I've been to this is posing nude for an art major here at Tech. The situations though are completely different. I wasn't being paid, I was doing it as a favor and my identity was kept concealed.
 
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I think what needs to be understood is that there are people, older men usually, who know when young men are insecure and can be exploited. These are not men who are going to sit down with you and say, "In ten years you may regret this. Think it over before you do it." These guys are not therapists. They are perverts who want to get you naked as quickly as possible. And most of them prey particularly on young males, such as the guy who started thsi thread.

I am torn on this topic, because I think that the human body is beautiful, and I think that the guy who started this thread has a beautiful body. Check out his pictures. But most people who would be taking such pictures would not see your body as beautiful. They wouldn't see this young man as I do: as a beautiful representation of the holiness of youth. They would see him as a "twink" and a notch on a metaphorical bed post.

My advice: if you want nude pictures of yourself, get a friend you trust to take nude pictures of yourself with your own camera and film, and then YOU are in control of what happens to those photos. You can keep them if you want, or burn them. Above all else, STAY IN CONTROL of this. Don't let others have power over you with this when the consequences could be negative for you.

Like "hugechris", I am jaded on the topic of nude pictures as well, which is why I hesitated to have a gallery. But I figure as long as I don't have a picture of my face in there it is okay. Looking back, I realize that when I was 18 and posed for the nude photos I was very insecure. I needed admirers. I wanted to be the center of attention. I now wish I had found a less potentially hazardous way to get attention and praise.

Hi mate,
Most of what I would say has been said already. However I will repeat, don't do it. I was in the same position as Ganymede. However the person who took the photo's tried to bribe me for sex and when I wouldn't participate sent the photo's to my mum. I am a bit older now, but once bitten twice shy. I don't put photo's on here or any other sites because I feel a little bitter from the past. I have been thinking of changing that. But not my face. Don't let anyone film your face and remember the preditors are very clever. Don't think about right or wrong, think with the outcome in mind and know you are being used.

Chris
 
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If you want money, then offer something less important for it. Posing nude for only the money will debase and cheapen the way you look and feel about yourself. You will probably find it one of your main regrets in a self-slide through worthlessness.

Regardless, there are plenty of models and pornstars out there. If you ARE going to release photos, protect your identity and try to make artwork that endures the generations, instead of bringing you shame.


What would I do in your situation? Nature provides all that I need.
 
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With me, I've figured that this may be my one saving grace if the pictures of me as an 18-year-old ever see the light of day -- I could defend them as "art." The photographer actually has an international reputation for doing art photography, albeit a little more on the avant garde side of things (a toned down version of Mapplethorpe perhaps).

I agree, by the way. After looking at Mustang's pictures, I think he needs to have art made out of his beautiful body, not porn. That's just my opinion, though.