Okay, I apologize if this has been covered before, but I have recently had a few discussions with both men and women about this topic, and I'd like to know if others might help out by giving their input as well. Sometimes sex with a larger man can be painful. Although time can be the biggest help, that is not the ONLY thing that can be done to make the experience more pleasurable. One conversation I had was about a couple that has been together 4 years.... and obviously time has done SOME good, but they are still looking for ways to improve things. I always suggest woman on top, but this particular woman says it's more painful than missionary when she is on top. Another one that I suggested was spooning from behind. Does anyone have suggestions for positions that might allow for shallow penetration? Thanks!