I've had a bit of a growth spurt this last year and what was once a tight fit is now very tight. Some positions have been made "off limits" because they hurt more than they feel good. This is fine with me. I love my wife and we've found very good positions that get around the pain problem. Right now, sex works best with positions where she is on top. But sometimes, we want to make love where I am "on top" or in the "control" postion. Missionary isn't working well for us. Does anyone know some good positions to try where I could still be on top? All help is appreciated, thank you.