Possible desperate housewife situation

[OmahaBeef]

When I was in high school, a guy I played football with was dating another girl in our senior class. Her mother was exceptionally good-looking, and just like what your describing.

Long story short, his girlfriend caught him and her mother in bed together, and what ensued was a terrible disaster that I can garantee you he would take back if he could. Not only did her daughter find out first hand, but the husband also knew. It got around school...FAST...and it completely destroyed a relationship between husband and wife and daughter and the younger siblings. They all now basically hate each other.

What you need to understand my young buddy, is that the decisions in your life is like dropping a stone into a pond. You make a splash, and from there you can't stop the waves.

I can state unequivocally that this is a bad idea in more ways than one...don't be a fool...there's plenty of pussy out there so my best suggestion is that you find it some other way with some other person.

...OB

 

[basque9]

I can see the wisdom many people have espoused concerning danger,morality and fairness, but also I know the big deal it is to have first-time sex. I would much rather see you shag this married woman, than hop on a prostitute the first time or for that matter to have you humping some teenage girl . First time sexual encounters are not about a lasting relationship ... that will come with marriage. Young man ..do what seems right to you! Another person's opinion may not be the best advice for you no matter how well-intentioned it might be offered! Be safe and responsible!

 

[D_N Flay Table]

Sounds like a great fantasy...
And that is all it should ever be.
I am a little bit older than you, but I know the difference..
MEN never should mess around with a married woman, no matter HOW HOT she is. Trust me. it isn't worth it, there are pleanty of other fish in the sea my friend.
not only is it unethical to have a sexual relation with a Married person, no matter how bad they want it, or if they iniate it, but you have to think of your friend as well.
I am sure you want to, and she sounds like she wants to aswell, but like other people have pointed out, she might be feeding you a bunch of bullshit, and if you do it, it will not be a matter of *IF* but *When* the truth comes out, and you will be used as a catalyist to destroy the marriage.
think about that,
think about your friend,
and think about the saftey of yourself and your family.

husbands that have been cheated on are capable of some pretty drastic things.. trust me on that one.
and this guy.. is a construction worker?
you must be out of your mind.

keep your dick in your pants, and be a man...
get some young hot poon. and call it a nite, and leave the friends mom to hot jerk off fantasies.

just my two cents
DJG

 

[Skull Mason]

Its risky as hell. Make sure everything is thought out first. Always think ahead of everything. Don't trust her to do that. Maybe she wants to get caught to get some attention from her husband. Meet her at a hotel or something. Don't just hop over there and think you are going to knock some boots on your boys couch. Sometimes risk and danger make it even more intense and enjoyable, but one wrong move and all that enjoyment turns to fear. Enjoy young brother.

 

[rob_just_rob]

Thank you donkeyboy, to all the posters who are saying lame things THIS is a mans response. The rest of you are a prime example of the pussification of the modern man.

And you're a prime example of someone who is desperately trying to prove (to a bunch of strangers, at that) that he isn't a pussy.

Is something wrong?

 

[naughty]

Cloudburst,

DO not start down a path that may take you places you dont need to go. First, this is your FRIEND's mom. THe plot may seem hot in an erotic story or porn movie but in real life it has some serious possible complications. She never should have approached you. It was inappropriate and selfish. You should run not walk away from this situation and wait to find someone who will not necessarily have family members who can potentially be hurt by her thoughtless straying...

 

[jeff black]

You know, my only concern would be the fact my friend could find out.

I can't imagine he would "highfive" me for banging his mom, no matter how bad she wanted it.

It's pretty much the end of the friendship, and potentially the marriage.

 

[ClaireTalon]

The Graduate, that's a very matching comparison indeed. Basically, the situations are identical, but the outcome can't always be like the movie.

I support donkeyboy in his point of an experienced woman being the best for a first time, and that the first time probably won't be ensued by a lasting relationship. In my opinion, you should try to get a mature lady, seduce her or get seduced by her, or find her through an ad (the wonders of the Internet), and then have your fun with her. That's nothing wrong, I have had my fair share of youngbucks either.

But then, I can only repeat: Married women are unstable allies. Omahabeef portrayed the worst case scenario here, and even if it may not completely blast their family apart, you would be the one who had to deal with an angry husband, and angry sons. And men's reactions are unpredictable as soon as the balls are involved.

What an interesting discussion! Here it is, "The Graduate."

My initial, gut reaction was to say, "are you kidding? Fuck her!" But stepping back for a moment, that's clearly just my cock "thinking" -- that is, no brain, totally irrational and lust driven. (I always get horny while visiting this site. ;-)

Go ahead guys, hit me, but I think a woman is MUCH more likely to have a thoughtful, mature grasp of a situation like this than a man. This is no exception. I'd go with Claire. There is wisdom in what she says here. In my mind (the one that sits atop my shoulders), the cons far outweigh the pros.


p.s. Shelby: I take tea at 3.

 

[ClaireTalon]

Probably you'll have screwed her by now, and probably you'll take the advice to go for it. Well, do whatever suits you best, and if you decide to fuck her, good luck, even though I don't exactly appreciate it.

But if you do, take this advice from me: For future dates, use motels away from your town, and make sure YOU pay everything, CASH! And make sure the bloodflow to your brain is high enough after the intercourse to really wipe up all the traces, no lost jewellery from her side, no hickeys or bites and scratch marks, no perfume residues. Might be best to wear another outfit for the date, and change afterwards.

 

[B_hungnate]

Hey man I feel ya. I'm a lover of older women and I've gotten with 1 married woman who is beyond hot. I didn't like all the sneaking around and a few times I've ended it and then we hooked up again. Right now I'm not sleeping with her but who knows I couldn't even tell you whether it will happen again. All I can say to you is yeah, it'll probably be hot, but you should realize what a hassle it will be to sneak around too. Plus if it's your buddy's mom you should think about that too, because maybe you won't get caught but maybe you will. Good luck, man.

 

[55859]

I've no doubt that sex with a mature woman would be fantastic for a young guy . . . I can't imagine a better teacher . . . and if the young man is a good student, the lessons will last a lifetime . . . and hopefully be used to give pleasure to all his lovers in the future.

But I'd advise staying away from a friend's mom; find another sexy MILF ;-)~

 

[55859]

p.s. "after the intercourse [] really wipe up all the traces" . . . makes me think of CSI and episodes where they find traces of "DNA" all over the room. hehe Anyway, I hope the no-tell-motel won't become a crime scene.

 

[ClaireTalon]

p.s. "after the intercourse [] really wipe up all the traces" . . . makes me think of CSI and episodes where they find traces of "DNA" all over the room. hehe Anyway, I hope the no-tell-motel won't become a crime scene.

Watch episodes 1 - 5 of "CSI: Ft. Bumfuck" and there won't be any news in it any longer. Yawn.

I don't think her husband is a Police technician who samples her for third-party fibers, body fluids, latent finger prints, sperm samples and wiped up blood. But our boy here should still make sure not to leave any too prominent scratches, grip marks or love bites that she can't hide from her husband. Just in case he gets the hots for her again. The outcome might be a messy one.

 

[BigPaul0001]

Well lets see here, Its been 4 days and hes not come back... The way I figure it he did it and the husband came home and killed him....OR he did it her son came home early and killed him.... OR He did it his friend came home early and killed him. OR He didnt do it and just no longer cares...

 

[CLOUDBURST21]

OK so I see there was still some interest in how this turned out and since you all offered such good advice I figured the board should hear about it. Basically, from my perspective being involved directly I was able to tell that this wasn’t a deceptive or manipulative woman, just someone who was frankly quite lonely and frustrated (including sexually). I went back the next day and she essentially answered all my concerns herself by explaining that she wasn’t looking to tie me down to anything and that she truly just wanted a fling.

Funniest part is that she knew I had a crush on her for years (going to when I was a pimple faced teenager) because my buddy had told her. And let me tell you guys…it..was… hot. I definitely weighed my options after posting and decided that I’ve been on a roll lately in terms of fantasy fulfillment and wasn’t going to let this one get away. Like I said, this woman was a dream of mine for a long long time, she just wanted a quick stand with a “handsome guy” and I obliged. I know a lot of you will say I’m a dick, an asshole, a bad friend- maybe so and that’s your opinion. But this is something that’s never getting out to the husband or my buddy and this woman was left satisfied knowing that she could still please a man and wasn’t as undesirable as her husband made her feel. This happened last Friday and I’ve been over there since hanging out with my friend who got back from Orlando and there wasn’t any awkwardness just a sort of playful repartee aand some winks and grins and stuff.

Things went so well in fact and we both had so much fun that we’re doing it again this Friday (tomorrow) since my buddy went back to Madison today. She said she wants to try to finish off the pack of xl’s I bought last week. Almost lost my sauce when she whispered that to me the other day. I’ve read other guys accounts of flings like this with older women and can now confirm that they are just as fun or maybe even more so than with chicks my own age.

 

[B_Think_Kink]

Oh brother... lol well all the best to you, it was your decision to make, and thankfully you didnt get hurt in the process. I guess sometimes fantasies like that are hard to not get into.

 

[rybman333]

going back for more is trouble in the makings.

 

[Doc]

Sorry man, I don't mean to chastise you, but you wouldn't be a really good friend if you did that to my Mom. You're just selfish.

 

[D_N Flay Table]

Lets hope the husband doesn't cut off you 'XL'
I would.

 

[Principessa]

Give Cloudburst21 a break!

At least they talked about the situation first, he didn't just drop trou and bang her on the kitchen table.

Since it appears the sex was quite good and she extended a second invitation I don't think he should have any qualms about saying yes.
Besides throwing away XL condoms is not ecofriendly. Do you know how long they would retain their shape in a landfill?!
I can totally understand not wanting to waste perfectly good young, hard cock.

ClaireTalon is correct. Future encounters should be at a nice, clean no-tell-motel out of town. Cash is mandatory so as not to leave a paper trail. That's why God made 24hr ATM's.