Possible For Large Guys To Have Poor Self-Confidence/Self-Esteem ??

[helgaleena]

And you have a life? Flame war alert.

See? If you have a really big one, it's wired directly into your narcissism centers of your nervous system and everything wags the same direction it does. It is contrary to all known laws of physics for you to have a low self-esteem. :tongue: If we are at all in doubt of this, we are flaming. Flaming what, though?

 

[someperson]

Not really for me little over 7.25x6

last month I was forced into quitting(name of company here) 'theboss' she said some hateful stuff to me and killed my self-esteem & confidence .

To begin with before that my self-esteem & confidence was unstable.

 

[twoton]

<raises hand>

 

[rhonnie14]

I'm pretty big but not huge and I'm a pretty good-looking guy but I am still very self-conscious and shy around women and with relationships. Girls I've been with always compliment me but I always annoy them because of my low self-esteem. All my probelms are mental I know but I still don't have much confidence in myself physically even though I know that I should. But if there weren't unconfident well-endowed men like myself, I doubt that a Large Penis Support Group would even exist.

 

[D_ksekcltyaecuhcir]

im quite big, but im the shyest person you will ever meet in public.
i have asbergers, so my social skills dont come natural to me (i have to put on a front in public).

i can talk fine on social networking sites, and on xbox live, but meeting new people or holding a conversation face to face in public is the most uncomfortable thing i have to do. i worry about what to say during a conversation and my mind goes blank, initiating a conversation is rare from me unless they are a close friend or family member. im getting treatment for it, i used to be a lot worse, but yeah i'm hung and shy.

i used to be very self conscious too, but after gettin positive comments from people after uploading my pics on the internet i began to walk to accommodate the fact i carry something everyone wants. plus my girlfriend is very understanding and supportive

Jude x

 

[helgaleena]

I'm pretty big but not huge and I'm a pretty good-looking guy but I am still very self-conscious and shy around women and with relationships. Girls I've been with always compliment me but I always annoy them because of my low self-esteem. All my probelms are mental I know but I still don't have much confidence in myself physically even though I know that I should. But if there weren't unconfident well-endowed men like myself, I doubt that a Large Penis Support Group would even exist.

You look pretty adorable. That makes it a pleasure to serve as your emotional jock strap :love:

 

[09inches]

Well I will start by saying that I've been told that I fit the bill of Bull etc. I'm a Black Male 41 years old 6' tall or (182 cm) , 250lbs or (113 kg.), Dark Complexion, Shaved Head, and Muscular Build, and my Cock is 8.34 " Long or (21.18cm), and 6-6.5" around or (15.24-16.51 cm) when hard.

I've been told by most of the Women that i've been with in my life that I am a very good lover and that they very much enjoy sex with me and that, they always cum many times with me from both Oral and Fucking.

But I have suffered from Low Esteem since I was a very young child, the Women that i've been with in my life have told me that I have an above Average/Large Penis or in Hood Talk i'm a Big Dick Ass Mutha Fucka.

But i've always felt that my Penis is below average/small to the point that I have consulted a Cosmectic Doctor, in regards to having my Penis thickend, I was told that the process would cost between $ 5,000-$6,000 or (4.20-5.04 Eur) which i'm now saving up for.

Some people close to me have said that I have watched to much Porn in my life, I first started watching the old Beta/VHS Tapes when they first came out and continue to watch it online and DVD to this day.

But all that I know is that this feeling that I have has made me depressed pretty much my entire life, and even when a Woman tells me that I have a Large Penis, Deep down inside I don't believe her and think that she's just saying that to make me feel good.

In fact I became a CUCKOLD with my Long Term Girlfriend awhile back, we have found several guy's who have been blessed with truly Big Penises. We found them at Lifestyle Parties and they were as big around as Shorty Mac/Shane Diesl and I sat back and watched because I knew then that she was TRULY being filled up and her Eyes and Face said PLEASURE.

I am to a point in my life that if I don't have the Penis Thicking process soon then I don't know what I might do to myself because I TRULY FEEL ASHAMED TO TAKE OFF MY CLOTHES INFRONT OF WOMEN BECAUSE OF MY SIZE!:redface::frown1:

 

[rtg]

I once dated a crazy guy (well wouldn't call it dating really...it was more like one week lol) who was very well endowed....but had a lot of self esteem and trust issues...the whole suite of crazy really. I couldn't handle it.

Just cos someone has a big cock, doesn't make them any less human. Everyone gets insecure and whatnot at times.

 

[701757]

my Cock is 8.34 " Long or (21.18cm), and 6-6.5" around or (15.24-16.51 cm) when hard.

What did you use to measure it, a fucking microscope?

 

[rtg]

What did you use to measure it, a fucking microscope?

rofl. maybe he is talking in mm or um ;p

 

[closetfreak]

What did you use to measure it, a fucking microscope?

its that extra 0.04" that makes the difference

 

[Zeuhl34]

I'm a shy, nervous, unconfident (if that isn't a word, it ought to be) in real life, particularly in regard to women.

 

[pcghabsy]

What did you use to measure it, a fucking microscope?

Internet inches, yo.

 

[HunggGreek]

It's most certainly possible for hung dudes to have low confidence. When I was younger I was bullied a lot for being fat and even though I lost most of the weight I'm still horribly low on confidence. I still have a horrible body image that won't go away. While I may be fine around the guys and in chat when I know you're interested, put me around a hot girl I want to fuck and I've got no clue what to do.

 

[D_Dick_S_Lapp]

Not only is it possible but prevalent. Just on lpsg alone theres thread after thread asking "am i big enough" "whats the average size" and the awesome "does my penis make my ego look big"...ok not so much the last one but you get the idea.

If someone gets attention for one thing over a certain period of time they're going to be conscience about it, thats just the way it is. And if they haven't learned to be conscience about others things like their personality then their self confidence bottle necks toward the penile area. To the point where its all they can think about. And yeah that sort of foundation doesn't last long at all. Speaking from experience mind you.

 

[09inches]

LOL this is in response to RTG and SRK 515 and any other person's who may have questions or comments about my measurments. I measured from the top of my Penis from the base to the head.

I will NOW stick with the STANDARD AMERICAN MEASURING SYSTEM of inches instead of trying to use the Metric System. So here it is in Good Ol American Inches:smile:

8 3/4" Long when measured from the top starting at the pubic bone to the tip of the head.

6 1/2" around and 1 3/4" wide using a Tailoring Measuring Tape

I hope this clears up any questions:smile: AND YES MY ESTEEM IS VERY LOW and I do plan on having my Girth increased as well as my Glands, in hopes that I can measure up because when I look in the Mirror I see a Small Below Average Male and it DRIVES ME CRAZY!

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

Hi

I was wondering is it possible for a guy who's large to have
poor self-confidence or low self-esteem (with relation to
women/relationships) ? I would think that big guys have
such a great sense of self and such satisfying social/sex
lives;it must be wonderful.

I would assume that it so gratifying to know that you possess
something that so many women desire and to know that you
have the ability to pleasure a woman;whether it be physically
(orgasm) or psychologically ( woman getting a "rush" from
being with a large guy).

I also assume that large guys must feel VERY powerful and masculine
when making love to a woman;seeing her "get off" because of their
size.It must be much easier for you to date in some cases;maybe
word gets around about your size and you have women approaching
you and being propositioned,having a various fuck buddies,etc...

Continued success to all large guys out there.All the best !!

low self esteem and/or self loathing has nothing to do with cock size, imho

 

[petite]

You have body dysmorphic disorder. You need to see a therapist, not a doctor to enlarge your penis.

 

[Simon9]

No, it is not possible to have low self esteem.

If your penis is in the double digit range, then you are clearly a favorite of God's and you might as well have the self-esteem to match. If people I've met don't care for me, I just tell myself, "Hmmm...they probably realize I'm well endowed and are therefore jealous. I am so much better than them. Especially the women. Because they barely have any penis at all. My wife agrees.

I walk up to beautiful women all the time and ask them out. They laugh. They sneer. Then I drop my pants and show them. They follow me home, begging me for sex and offering me their first born children. The police arrest me for public indecency but that's only because they are jealous.

Like all well endowed men, I am God's gift to women. Therefore my self esteem is in the upper stratosphere. Couldn't be better, thank you very much.

Simon

 

[petite]

No, it is not possible to have low self esteem.

If your penis is in the double digit range, then you are clearly a favorite of God's and you might as well have the self-esteem to match. If people I've met don't care for me, I just tell myself, "Hmmm...they probably realize I'm well endowed and are therefore jealous. I am so much better than them. Especially the women. Because they barely have any penis at all. My wife agrees.

I walk up to beautiful women all the time and ask them out. They laugh. They sneer. Then I drop my pants and show them. They follow me home, begging me for sex and offering me their first born children. The police arrest me for public indecency but that's only because they are jealous.

Like all well endowed men, I am God's gift to women. Therefore my self esteem is in the upper stratosphere. Couldn't be better, thank you very much.

Simon

:chairfall: :lmao: