My partner is 9 inches long and 7 inch girth which, for me, is too big. We have had some problems with his size, certain positions we simply cannot do etc. about 3 weeks ago was the last time we had intercourse. we climaxed at the same time. My vagina squeezed around him quite tightly and we were both very sore when he pulled out. He now is in pain a good share of the time. The worst pain is at night if he gets up for a pee - the pain stays with him for ages afterward and he cannot get back to sleep. he has taken two courses of antibiotics in case it is a water infection. I gave him a very gentle hand job about 10 days ago and it seemed his pain (which was getting better) started from the beginning all over again after he ejaculated. He had an erection at the weekend but we knew it was still too soon to try for sex. I put my hand around it (well, my fingers dont reach all the way around the girth...) he said it was sore just doing that. So we let him calm down and forgot it. We getting worried about this problem now and he is panicking wondering if he'll be able to have sex without pain ever again. I think it will just take some time to get back to normal. Does he have an injury? Will it heal? Has anyone else experienced this at all?