Good morning,
So i am hoping to get some insight from women who have had children, and how/if their sexual desire bounced back.
My wife and I used to have amazing sex. Shes not an overly sexual person, not into toys, porn, any of that stuff. But we had amazing, passionate sex, the best ive ever had. Not to mention the emotional connection. We would do any and every position, and only a few would cause dis comfort temporarily. Im not overly endowed. Wede have sex atleast once every other day, if not every day, her usually initiating it.
Since, we've had two amazing babies, now 1 and 3. And since the first pregnancy nothing has been the same.
She has zero sex drive, and sex is emotionless, lacks lusts and honestly boring. Every position hurts except her on top, angled forward and only taking me in a few inches. But I can tell she doesnt really enjoy it, and our lack of intimacy is taking a toll on the relationship. And I still find her to be the sexiest woman on the planet and I want her daily. (Not expecting it daily but just an idea of how much I lust for her)
I get that we have alot more on our plates, both working, and were always exhausted. But I love my wife more than anything, and I keep just hoping hormones will settle and shell be somewhat back to old form. Or is this the new norm?
So i am hoping to get some insight from women who have had children, and how/if their sexual desire bounced back.
My wife and I used to have amazing sex. Shes not an overly sexual person, not into toys, porn, any of that stuff. But we had amazing, passionate sex, the best ive ever had. Not to mention the emotional connection. We would do any and every position, and only a few would cause dis comfort temporarily. Im not overly endowed. Wede have sex atleast once every other day, if not every day, her usually initiating it.
Since, we've had two amazing babies, now 1 and 3. And since the first pregnancy nothing has been the same.
She has zero sex drive, and sex is emotionless, lacks lusts and honestly boring. Every position hurts except her on top, angled forward and only taking me in a few inches. But I can tell she doesnt really enjoy it, and our lack of intimacy is taking a toll on the relationship. And I still find her to be the sexiest woman on the planet and I want her daily. (Not expecting it daily but just an idea of how much I lust for her)
I get that we have alot more on our plates, both working, and were always exhausted. But I love my wife more than anything, and I keep just hoping hormones will settle and shell be somewhat back to old form. Or is this the new norm?