Post Cum Depression
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Sometimes I get a little down right before I cum, mostly because of the feeling of "Aw man, I'm enjoying myself and it's almost over!" Hey, it feels good, and it's never fun to stop doing something that feels good.
But it's part of being a man, right? We just got to enjoy it when we can and make every squirt count.
But it's part of being a man, right? We just got to enjoy it when we can and make every squirt count.
I don’t get depressed but I do often lose sexual interest completely. And depending on who I’m with I may wish to be immediately alone.
After jacking one out, I can also feel mildly disgusted with the mess, whereas before I shoot I can be very into my own precum and cum.
After jacking one out, I can also feel mildly disgusted with the mess, whereas before I shoot I can be very into my own precum and cum.
Sometimes I feel relief after I shoot my wad. Other times, I feel a bit sad or awkward. I totally get what you're saying. But the feelings are quite short-lived in my case.
I think it's best to edge a lot. That's my advice. This helps avoid the post-cum blues.
In Tao, it's best not to cum as frequently as you age. I'm not sure how valid and correct that all is. ?????
I leak semen like crazy these days. LOL. I sometimes have so much pre-cum that you'd think I had ejaculated. My pre-cum looks just like proper cum.
Don't overthink your emotions, no matter what they are.
I think it's best to edge a lot. That's my advice. This helps avoid the post-cum blues.
In Tao, it's best not to cum as frequently as you age. I'm not sure how valid and correct that all is. ?????
I leak semen like crazy these days. LOL. I sometimes have so much pre-cum that you'd think I had ejaculated. My pre-cum looks just like proper cum.
Don't overthink your emotions, no matter what they are.
oh I can kind of disagree with this. Dealing with a lot of mental issues (and worse now with covid) and having a jerk off and cum is like a medicine for me. Anyone else?
And I am not a young guy, 44.
And I am not a young guy, 44.
I have learned not to jack off unless I'm incredibly horny, because that's when the act is most satisfying. But I also get a little down after orgasm ( psychologically as well as physically), knowing that it won't happen again until the horns once again start to appear. I used to do it more often, but eventually lost some of the thrill of the moments before the spurt; it was a bit too ordinary. Now, after waiting, it's heaven. But I can see how someone would get a bit "down" after release.
I have never felt depressed after an orgasm, be it self induced or via stimulation by other parties/orifices.
I feel relaxed after an orgasm, and I do feel happy. The "unhappy" part - or more like, the less enjoyable part - is to get out of bed to clean up/shower before I have fully enjoyed my post orgasm afterglow (should and/or that need arise).
I feel relaxed after an orgasm, and I do feel happy. The "unhappy" part - or more like, the less enjoyable part - is to get out of bed to clean up/shower before I have fully enjoyed my post orgasm afterglow (should and/or that need arise).
It might have something to do with how you were raised. Like in a religious household where the act of sex or even masturbation is discouraged. And its even worse for gay guys cause you also sometimes have societal issues on top of it. But if none of that is the issue...it might have something do with the the amount of hormones in your body after release. I've even read of some guys even being allergic to their own semen. So there could be multiple things going on. I think the issue though is how depressed? If its manageable I wouldn't worry about it. If its severe then I recommend some type of doctor or therapist. Like one of the other posters said...for me I dont get depressed but as soon as I cum my sexual desire is like 180 and I want nothing more to do with it.
