So me and my partner have been apart for 4 months now and speak on a day to day basis via fonr or Instant messenger. the relationship lasted 3 years and i would say was my first serious one. however its been mentioned to remain as friends with benefits, as in we would meet for sex sometime yet continue to have a steady friendship. We will always be mroe then just friends but im concerned as to how this is gonna pan out and have now confided in youg uys to help me out. to be frank..is this a good idea for fun, laughter and stuff or is it bad. My ex is very close to me as i am to her. im just not sure how it will be. Any replys to this thread is highly appriciated.