Post Sex Discomfort

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  1. Gekko

    Gekko New Member

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    So my husband fessed up that if we have sex every day for several days in a row he swears he's going to have a stroke. Yeah, it sounds funny but he says that his heart races, his vision goes funny, massive headaches to the point of nausea, and his testes just ache. He says that this didn't happen until about 7 years ago after his vasectomy. He's in average health, no real history of heart disease or HBP.

    He refuses to go to the doctor about this because he seriously doubts it's something he want to replicate at the clinic. While I have been convincing him that he really should visit the Dr., maybe y'all might have had a similar experience and have anecdotal stories I could share with him so that we can start finding a way to solving the problem. I'm not a happy camper limiting our fun times.
     
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    If its been going on seven years, see a doctor.

    Maybe it was something to do with the vasectomy and some mixed up nerve endings that are sending the wrong signals. I have no idea but I do believe you should see a doctor asap. It probably isn't serious but it must be really annoying.

    His balls should really only be hurting if he's getting aroused but not cumming for hours. It's called 'blue balls' or -congestion.
     
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    Hey Gikko, first of all welcome!:smile:

    Yeh, he has to go to Doctor..why some or many men are like that..even when we beg him to go...he does not..:rolleyes:

    I never hear of that.
     
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    It's called being a man, you wouldn't understand :tongue:
     
  6. D_Bob_Crotchitch

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    If he is having headaches and heart interuptions, it could be a problem with his arteries and heart. He needs to go see a doctor immediately.
     
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    For what ever reason, you're husband is saying he wants to slow down.
    Sure he sould see a doctor. He does not have to explain the entire situation, how about just a check up?


    This may be physical, or it may not be. But if he is not comfortable having sex as often as you, you need to understand that. You love him, I'm sure. But there is something going on and I would back off a bit and give him some space.
    Maybe he's feeling too pressured. He's feeling uncomfortable about something, give it some time.
     
  8. Gekko

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    He's turning 40 this year, and does do the annual physical with the physician. He peaked out on the stress test last month, and all the other "turning 40" heart healthy tests they ran him through. So his overall health is excellent so the Dr. says.

    I will continue to encourage him to head to the physician. I knew it required attention, but figured to post so that I can show him everyone's responses and I'm not the only one who thinks he needs to visit the Dr.
     
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