Post your Secret..

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by sneakyseth, May 27, 2009.

  1. sneakyseth

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    I thought this would be a good place to start a somewhat anonymous "PostSecret" type thread. I'll go first:

    I'm 18 and I lie and say that I'm NOT a virgin to anyone who asks.. even to my friends :sad:.
     
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    Hmm i jack off to gay porn
     
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    Do your friends know you're gay? And there's nothing wrong with being 18 and a virgin. I'm in the same boat. (Ha ha, guess my opinion is kind of biased :rolleyes:),

    My secret:
    I act a lot more assured of myself than I really am.
     
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    Don't consider myself gay at all.. love woman, but jack off to pictures of cock.. have sucked cock.. and occassionally stick things up my ass..

    but very ashamed of it all..

    yet it turns me on.:confused:
     
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    Hmmm. I guess I'm worried that eventually I'll lose my Bisexuality and become completely Homosexual. (Like so many people say Bisexuals end up)
     
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    My secret would probably be:
    My fear that I won't ever find anyone to share my life with.

    Since I don't know how many gay, naturist, speedo loving, scuba diving, fun loving, smart, surfers, who are cute, sexually adventurous, confident, and social; exist out in the world.


    There is nothing wrong with being 18 and being a virgin, I was 20 before I really did anything with a guy at all, and in some ways I'm thankful for it, because I was old enough to understand my actions.

    There is nothing wrong with that, its what you like, it doesn't necessarily mean you gay, though if you are you will figure it out in your own time, just be sure you do what you want for yourself and not you think society expects from you, as I have known a few guys who were gay, but turned straight due to family issues, and I'm still waiting to see how that turns out, then there have been others who started out married or with serious girlfriends, just thankfully they all figured it out before they had kids.

    I definitely do this too, but its only because if people truly knew how I felt on the inside sometimes they would look at me as a big mess, and that's not the image I want to portray to the world.


    Jacking off to cock and sucking cock, that probably just makes you BI, and sticking things up your ass doesn't mean your gay, I've known several totally 100% straight men who would never do anything with a guy who like to have there ass' played with and a few have been known to get fucke by their girlfriends. There is nothing to be ashamed of about enjoying your bodies full sexual potential.

    And what would be so wrong with being gay? isn't the most important thing for you to be happy, no matter what society says is right or wrong, society is stupid, I'm just glad that the tides have started to slowly turn, and I know that I wouldn't be able to survive if society was as repressed as it use to be.
     
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    I show my dick for two reasons, one to show off, and two to earn extra money to help with spending habits, which is the main reason for my blog and the multiple cam shows I do.
     
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    I'd say you are at the very least bi. But I would also say that is nothing to be ashamed of.


     
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    Well I like knowing that in the end it could go either way and that there's a chance I won't have to come out to anyone. I like the possibility that I may have kids. I like not having to lie when people ask me if I'm gay b/c technically I'm not. Plus I've never identified with that word. It has negative connotations and having been teased with that word through a good portion of middle school, I won't bestow it upon myself now.
    I'm also the only male of just 2 siblings and I'd feel guilty if in the end I didn't have kids and keep the family going and keep the family name going as well. Really weighs down on me. Especially because I have a stronger affinity for males and where I'm at right now in life, if I were to get with someone, I'd prefer a male although I'm fine remaining by myself. That way I don't have to deal with it. I've never been in a relationship.
     
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    A married bisexual living in the perfect house with a perfect lawn, perfect cars, perfect job -- a perfect perception of me living in "Stepford." Most of my life has been a secret and I hate myself for it.

    Sorry for being negative but it's been a real bitch of a day. (Crush on a new guy that will never be anything more...)
     
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    Wondering how you deal with that shame... to make it go away.
     
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    Are you having regular sex with your wife?
     
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    Yes.
     
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    i tried jacking off to gay porn. It works sometimes. Most of the time I get flaccid. Why? idk... I actually jacked all different types of porn.
     
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    I have a deep seated resentment toward couples I see in public. I envy them because I have slept with women but have never felt loved by any of them. I dont know what it is like to share a life with someone and am beguining to feel I never will.
     
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    I'm petrified of finding someone to spend the rest of my life with. Somewhere inside of me, I feel like that's what I want, but I'm scared to death of it actually happening.
     
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    I'm not gay, love women all the way. However...

    I do jack off to gay porn frequently, I have sucked cock, and I do put things in my ass once in a blue moon.
     
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    If I tell, then it won't be a secret anymore, won't it :rolleyes:
     
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    *Will it?*

    No it won't. :)

    (Sorry couldn't resist. Twas bothering me.)
     
  20. Principessa

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    I'm guessing you get flaccid when jacking to gay porn cause you're actually, truly straight. :rolleyes: :duh:


    So you are afraid of becoming a stereotype. Hmm, I guess I understand that; but wouldn't you rather be happy with your life and yourself no matter what path you take to get there?:confused:



    My secret: I love most lime flavored things, especially lime jello and lime slurpees. :smile:
     
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