precum & cum question for girls

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  1. B_HungSpermBoy

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    hello.this isnt a womens issue,but id like to ask if the girls on this group feel that precum is gross?my girlfreind doesnt like it or my cum.she says it is "icky".thats her word for it.it makes me feel like something is wrong.any coments r cool. thnx.
     
  2. madame_zora

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    Hmm, well I love it! It's a sign that he's really turned on and that's an exciting thing when you're about to have sex. I don't know how old you are, but if you are young, your g/f is probably fairly inexperienced. It is not unusual for girls/women to take a very long time to get comfortable with their own sexuality, and until that happens, they can sometimes see male functions as "gross". I assure you this is not personally about you, it's more a reaction to how she feels about sex, and herself. Because of societal standards, she may be looking to you for guidance and clues- I would suggest taking the first step. When giving her oral, let her know you enjoy the taste, how personal it is, how every person's taste and aroma is like a fingerprint and no two are alike. Tell her it's something that's just unique to her. When she understands this concept, she may be freer to look at yours in the same way. Good luck with all.
     
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    That was very, very nice MZ. :)
     
  4. madame_zora

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    Aww, thanx luv- I have my moments.
     
  5. Imported

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    wvalady1968: Yes, you do! And that one was excellent.
     
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    wvalady1968: Yes, you do. And that one was excellent.
     
  7. B_HungSpermBoy

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    i'm 18 & she's 18 also.sometimes she thinks other parts of my body are "gross",but she feels the same way about herself too.
     
  8. madame_zora

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    Aww, you both have plenty of time to learn what is comfortable for you. At 18 I was not the mature voice of reason I think I am today! Treat her with compassion and understanding and you will both grow through this.
     
  9. D_Humper E Bogart

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    I have INFINATE PATIENCE yet no one wants to try out my "gross body functions?" blargh.

    Anyway, OT, Zora, a great perl of wisdom. I personally would add that it'd be a good idea to explore each other's bodies, more like mutual masturbation, find out how each other "works".
     
  10. madame_zora

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    Orca, that's just because you're waaaay over there ------------>
     
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    Some young women just haven't yet learned to appreciate men and how significantly different they are from females. It's a learning process, learning to deal with all the "grossness" that is male. :D
     
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    Allow me to add my kudo to your excellent response., Madame Zora. One of the most evolved I have read on here and I've been here for a while on and off. You are one cool lady.
     
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    Allow me to add my kudo to your excellent response., Madame Zora. One of the most evolved I have read on here and I've been here for a while on and off. You are one cool lady.
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    Well thanks, but in truth, I just love cock and all the "grossness" associated with it! That's why I'm here. Also, we women have plenty of "grossness" that men have to get used to, sex is just icky in general if you really think about it like that, saliva, cum, snot, blood, ewwww! We have to get over our weirdness about bodily functions if we ever expect to enjoy sex. Be safe as possible, everyone, and learn to get into each other- that's when it gets reaaaaaaally good!
     
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    And your admiration for cocks and all their rewards is certainly why I personally love reading your posts, and always hope to one day meet a lady such as yourself who shares it. ;) :wub:
     
  15. InsertHere

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    One word: YUM!

    And I'm 18, by the way...
     
  16. madame_zora

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    InsertHere, I am as surprised by your age as I am impressed with your intelligence! I have enjoyed your posts, guess there's hope for the younger set after all. I know there are plenty of hung guys under 25 that will be thrilled to have you around here!
     
  17. D_Humper E Bogart

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    And? I'm severly dissapointed at the rarity of "Kinky bastards" at my uni. Jesus, am I the least sane person there or something??

    I'll remind you I'm a "boring science student", y'know, I'm supposed to be nerdish, not scare people off with my nack for nonlinerar thinking!

    Well, I have hope that Einstein got laid, I guess. :rolleyes:
     
  18. jonb

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    Well, Charles Darwin had twelve children. Of course, they were by his cousin, and three of them didn't survive through childhood. I wonder what his other cousin, Francis Galton, thought of the inbreeding in the Darwin family.
     
  19. D_Humper E Bogart

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    Well, inbreeding is a good way to check what alleles you have, I guess!
     
  20. autumnbreeze4321

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    Madame Z,

    You gotta be one of the coolest people I have ever met!!!

    As for pre-come, come and post come--I love it, anywhere and everywhere. I love a good Peter North porno once in a while.

    Great for the complection too
     
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